2006-07-03 08:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by basketball queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHEN YOU ARE ON THE PHONE JUST PRETEND YOU DON'T CARE. THIS WAY YOU WILL BE RELAXED TO HOLD A CONVERSATION. GIRLS ALWAYS THINK, WILL I BE TOO SILLY, TOO DUMB, TOO THIS , TOO THAT. MEN NEVER THINK LIKE THIS. IF THEY DO, THEY DON'T LET IT STOP THEM. THEIR LIKE, EITHER SHE DIGS ME OR SHE DON'T
PLAIN AND SIMPLE. THEY DON'T SWEAT IT. JUST USE YOUR BRAINS, TALK ABOUT ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING. ONE WAY TO START OFF IS BY LETTING HIM TALK ABOUT HIMSELF. ASK HIM QUESTIONS, LISTEN, THEN COMMENT, AND THEN ANOTHER QUESTION. AS HE TALKS HE IS TELLING YOU ABOUT HIMSELF AND AS HE TALKS, THINGS JUST NATURALLY COME TO MIND. THEIR WILL BE ACKWARD MOMENTS, THEN SAY SOMETHING LIKE THIS, WELL, I WAS JUST WONDERING WHAT YOU WE'RE DOING. I DON'T WANT TO HOLD YOU UP. THEN LISTEN TO HIS NEXT RESPONSE. IF HE SUDDENLY SAYS, NO, I'M NOT BUSY, THEN YOU CAN RELAX EVEN MORE. IF HE SAYS, OK, I'LL CHECK YOU LATER. DON'T SWEAT IT. CALL HIM SOME OTHER TIME. MAYBE IF HE IS WORTH IT, GIVE HIM YOUR PHONE NUMBER. LET HIM CALL YOU NEXT TIME. NOW SOME BOYS ARE NOT TALKERS, THEY SAY A LITTLE, AND THEN THEY ARE READY TO HANG UP. GET TO KNOW THE ONE'S WHO LIKE TO TALK ON THE PHONE, AND THE ONE'S WHO DON'T. DO NOT USE BAD LANGUAGE BY ANY MEANS, AND NEVER SAY ANYTHING NEGATIVE ABOUT ANYONE OR SAY ANYTHING YOU DON'T WANT REPEATED. SOMETIMES BOY'S WILL TRY YOU, TO SEE WHAT YOU WILL SAY AND DO. ALWAYS BE ON YOUR GUARD FOR THOSE WHO REALLY DON'T MEAN YOU NO GOOD. I WILL TELL YOU WHAT MY MOTHER TOLD ME, PEOPLE WILL SHOW YOU WHO THEY REALLY ARE QUICKLY, IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, PRESS ON.
2006-07-03 12:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over being shy is a hard thing to do. Especially if it is shyness when talking to a guy on the phone. Best thing to do would be to find things you have in common with the guy and talk about that stuff. From there it could lead to other topics and then who knows where. But finding a common ground or interest is one of the best keys to getting over shyness because it gives both of you something to talk about.
2006-07-03 08:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stop being shy by doing it more. The more you talk to them, the more you'll become comfortable.
2006-07-03 08:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by sheerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them questions, they will do all of the talking and you won't feel so shy anymore.
2006-07-03 08:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by littlebec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over it! What's the worst that can happen? He'll hang up? No,no,no you should just say whatever comes to mind no matter how weird you think it may be;chances are, he's thinking the same thing.
2006-07-03 08:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's clever... no concerns. i could first start up conversing to him via way of text fabric or facebook. this is extremely much less evasive and u can think of roughly what ur gonna say unlike on the telephone (that's often embarrassing to have that awkward silence on the telephone). u can get mushy swifter that way. then progression to extremely seeing one yet another. as quickly as that is going nicely refer to him on the telephone. yet i could start up small and artwork up. reliable luck..
2016-11-01 03:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend the person on the other end of the phone is one of your girls get comfy and let the conversation flow.
2006-07-03 08:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a psychiatrist.
2006-07-03 08:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a dumb as and talk
2006-07-03 08:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go see a hypnotherapist.
2006-07-03 08:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋