It was our 2 year anniversary three days ago, he took me out to a really nice restaurant and purpose. I told him I would think about it and he said he understood. ( both 18)
2006-07-03 07:33:17 · 20 answers · asked by I...love...me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you did a good thing baby girl. 1. can both of you support each other financially. 2. do you want to go to college or after you have a family which could mean 7 to 8 years from now. 3. is he the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
wait until both of you are financially stable and know that you're both right for each other.
2006-07-03 07:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I am assuming since you are attending college, which most likely mean you do not want to have children yet......... If you two love each other, not ready for children or family then why get marry so soon. All that matter is you two are together. I say finish college first then you'll be more ready to have a family ( does necessarily mean having kids but husband and wife is consider to be family ) Beside if you are going to college full time, and he is only 2 yrs older which likely mean neither of you will have a decent stable income..............
2016-03-27 02:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not saying Yes to him says 2 things about you.
1) You are actually thinking about the future and pondering which way it might go.
2) You have actually taken a step back to look at your feelings for him not just as a B/F but as to what your feelings will develope into after marraige.
Both are good reasons as not to make a swift answer. My wife and I both lived together for several months before we got married. Most people do not agree with this but the truth is it is the only way to get to know the real person you will marry. It is up to you but you started off well. Good luck on your choice!
2006-07-03 07:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that 18 is a bit too young for you to get married. This is the time in your life when you begin to find out who you really are and which direction your taking towards your future. If your boyfriend really does love you, and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, then he should understand that perhaps this is something your not ready for right now. Marriage is not something you should rush into. This is a very big step he's asking you to take, and if your not ready then he needs to understand that. Ask him to wait for you if being with you is really what he wants to do.
2006-07-03 07:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by RadiantGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it yet. if you have to think about it that should tell you right there! if you love someone unconditionally and want to be with them forever you wouldnt hesitate at that question. i was married at 20 and i felt like there was nobody in the would that i would rather be with than her and i knew with all my heart that she felt the same way, ive been married for 2 years which are said to be the hardest, but ive never regretted one single day, and im going to be a father in august!!!! life couldnt be better for me and FYI, we were together for 6 years before we were married. make sure you make certain that he's the one, because there is alot of divorces going on in our day. and divorces arent only expensive, but they can really bring you down. good luck with your decision!
2006-07-03 07:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you're not sure you DON'T get married. You're looking at staying with him for OVER 60 years (given today's life spans). Marriage is supposed to be a forever state (til death do us part. . . remember). You need to marry someone you love UNCONDITIONALLY and a person that is your best friend. You do NOT have this or you would not be asking the questions.
2006-07-03 07:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 18. Your still a kid! you want to enjoy life youn and free. if you get married you belong to someone. this is a huge desicion. take your time remeber that your class mates are gonna say something about this. getting married at a young age is not a great idea. your rushing things. take your time. go watch a pg-13 movie and ENJOY it. girl take your time growing up!!!
2006-07-03 07:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by macey_brasil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to get married then you say that you need some more time. If I wasn't ready for marriage i would think about do I love this man? I'm I going to hurt this man? I'm I going to forgive him if he does something to me?
2006-07-03 07:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Faithhhh,[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has to wait atleast 3 years more.
Legally if guy is 21 and gal is 18 then they can marry.
So ask him to continue this relationship 3 years more.
2006-07-03 07:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by jass_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to think about it then the answer is you probably want to wait. If you have been with someone for two years and you're not sure if they are the "one" then you should probably be reconsidering your choices.
2006-07-03 07:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Katie*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋