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I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and I occasionaly still think about him. I have a new boyfriend, who is really awesome and wonderful, and he lives with me. We get a long great when we are getting along, but when we fight its awful. I feel like its the end of the world. he loves me more than i love him. i feel like I love him, but at the same time like i have no love left to give. I occasionally get caught up thinking about my ex, we were together 5 years... and get very depressed. I hurt my ex a lot and was not there for him when he needed me. how to move on? how to know if this new guy is right for me? how to get over my ex completely?

2006-07-03 07:21:46 · 7 answers · asked by rollarcoaster brain 2 in Family & Relationships Weddings

7 answers

getting over completely - memory erasure. to know about the next guy - you are human we have the ability to adapt, you can make anyone be thi right one. you just need to give in to carelesness, and stop being so concerned with things working. They will do that on their own. As far as having no love left to give, that makes no sense to me, I always thought love was just there. And to the subject of fights, the first thing to remember is that fault is irrelevent and that means you should try not to blame the man; even if you think it's his fault. Whatever the problem at the moment, if someone loves you they will very rarely do harmfull things with the intent of hurting you. Accidents and mistakes are second nature. When you find that something irritates you just sigh and laugh to yourself because you are still alive and life goes on.

2006-07-03 07:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by anton t 7 · 2 1

First of all did you think you moved on a bit to fast hey if the fights get that bad I believe that he's not the one for you you should have been out dating yes but not moving in so fast it's just the beginning of the relationship and things get that bad you should have used the fact of getting out of a long relationship to hold off on living with him but your in it talk and be very careful how you approach this one in order not to start an argument and it's quite fine to think but please don't act on your thoughts because it's just going to open something you are really in no position to deal with....good luck with Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde

2006-07-03 14:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0 0

Girl it will take time to get over him. I am getting married this month and I live a whole state away from 2 of my ex's and I still occasionally think about them. They were both rude and one even cheated on me. I loved them both but it will just take time.

2006-07-03 22:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by angelblueyes200 2 · 0 0

sweat heart i know how u feel and if u still love ur ex than u need to call him , if thing are not working out with ur current boyfriend,
what u need to do is write 10 thing good about both of them and 10 bad things about of them and decide from thier i know it will be hard but u need to really deciede who u want to be with for the rest of ur life , i m going thrue the same thing but the questionist'n\about me its a about u , so good luck and i hope things work out and just be patient sweaty

2006-07-03 15:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by mact600 2 · 0 0

This is very normal . I broke with someone very special 6 years agao and everyday I think about him.. Because I love always

2006-07-03 14:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Richgirl 3 · 0 0

Grow up and stop wasting everybody's time

2006-07-03 14:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Suds 1 · 0 1

time heals all wounds

2006-07-03 14:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by :Phil 5 · 0 0

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