Okay, I live together only with my sister and my girlfriend just spent the weekend in our flat... she's going to move in and live together with us, that's why sometimes she comes and stays at night.
This morning, I found that she got up earlier and already took bath... too bad; I wanted to take bath with her actually.... To my surprise, she took bath ALTOGETHER with my own little sister! Of course, it's quite a shock for me, but I tried to stay cool and ask what they're both doing in the bathroom. Instead, they're just giggling and answered that it's girl secret... (WTF?!)
My sister and I know that my girlfriend is bisexual, but she promise that she won't betray me since I've accepted her just the way she is... and I trust her on that. Still, that doesn't prevent me to think about nasty stuffs that my girlfriend and my own sister did in the bathroom...
2006-07-03 07:17:59 · 73 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell me; is it common for girls to take bath together? I mean this is my wife-wannabe and my blood-sister here!! ...and why do they love giggling a lot sometimes without clear reason?!
I'm 20, my sis is 19, and my gf is 18...
2006-07-03 07:18:29 · update #1
You shouldn't worry about it. It isn't that crazy for two girls to take a bath together. And, so what if they had a little fun, as long as you talk to your girlfriend about it and she knows that a relationship between the two of them would be off limits. Besides, when you're not around would you rather have your girlfriend stay at home and fool around with your sister, or find another guy that she might like better. Think about it, and good luck to you.
2006-07-03 07:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that is just rude on both their parts. They are fooling around. Get real with your self. I don't know any two girl" friends" who would take a bath together unless they were gonna get nasty. You need to sit down and talk with your sister. You've known her forever and hopefully she will be honest with you. Really look at your relationship with your girlfriend, if shes gonna mess around with your own sis who Else has she been fooling with:) good luck.
2006-07-12 21:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by jannurse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a monogamous relationship. Why are you contemplating sex with someone else? I have never cheated on my wife.
However, it may be that your fiancee is gay or experimental. If she is deliberately trying to cheat on you with anyone and has picked your sister, she must want out of the relationship. Your sister is bordering on the incestuous with the behaviour. If she is gay, that's fine. Just pick someone else to have a steamy rendez-vous with.
I would think about calling off the wedding for now. I would reevaluate the state of your relationship. I don't think group situations work out so well. I believe a commitment is a commitment.
2006-07-03 07:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get with it...Your girlfriend is REALLLLLLLY moving in with your sister. You will be paying the bills. YOU know it is not normal for 2 adult girls to bathe together unless..........Not only is your girlfriend bisexual, but so is your sister. You don't have to think about the nasty things they did, I'm sure they will invite you the next time.
2006-07-15 09:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nunya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of girls take baths together. I think I stopped taking baths with my best friend when I was around 13 or so. Knowing full n well that she is bi-sexual...u might want to start getting worried.
2006-07-16 20:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by lost_carolina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sweat about it and girls do take baths together all the time. If your woried about it then maybe shes not the girl for you or you have some trust issues maybe from a bad relationship you once had besides if you trust your sis and your girl there shouldnt be a problem.
2006-07-15 15:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well son looks like she just betrayed you, but with your sister, and you thought she wanted to move in for you.
Adam C I missed the part where he said he was contemplating sex with someone else. He never said that.
But if I were him would be looking for someone else. There obviously is something going on here. Call the wedding off Sir Franklin
2006-07-03 07:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me pose this question: If you lived with a brother, would you want your girlfriend taking a bath with him? Probably not... I'd say sister, brother, or best friend - it's wrong. Do something about it before it's too late!
2006-07-03 07:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by sees_lwo_na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥ I mean girls will go to the bathroom together.... but I dont know any girls who take baths with their friends... I know I would never take a bath with another girl... and when girls "laugh for no clear reason" it means they either know something you dont know or that they did something you dont know about...me and my friends laugh all the time when we are up to something... I think you should start asking them some questions becuz it sounds to me like something is definitely up! ♥
2006-07-03 07:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by ?Blonde_Queen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OPEN your eyes dude...ARE U blind????? youir gf is movin in on your sister...right in front of your eyes....Your gf is bi and you said it yourself that she is....
Those giggles from the loo are giggles of the big O going on and if you are that blind to see it you really need to LQQK into a pair of glasses for the opened eyed view..
I wouldn't have this gf move in at all.....Let her live on her own.....I wouldn't think of marrying this person either....It will never work out.....You have the doubts of the TRUST issues!!!
Move on...find another gf that doesn't have bi-sexual tendancies...because honey...there will always be a female in the triangle...where a bi female is concerned!
2006-07-16 23:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋