my gurlfriend of 4 months is now acting lik she doesnt care wat i do ne more. I give her nething she wants when she wants nd she stills doesnt care. wat should i do bcuz i dont wanna leave her bcuz i really lik her nd she is about 2 have my child so wat should i do about dis??????
2006-07-03 07:14:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I think it's safe to say that most relationships do come to an end, and there are too many reasons to name. As other people have said, it is possible that her hormones are influencing her moods right now (although don't *ever* suggest this to her if you value your life!)
There could be something more to this, but you really need to find out what might be going on. Sit down one on one and really talk to her. She could be scared about the pregnancy or getting bad advice from her friends, or who knows what. Have a heartfelt and sincere discussion with her.
If the two of you are having a child together, it is extremely important that you either try to work things out or agree to stay friends if you split-regardless of what happens, you are both in this for the rest of your lives when a child is involved.
If you need anyone to talk to or any other suggestions, feel free to e-mail me through my ID. I'd be happy to help.
Good luck and best wishes.
2006-07-03 08:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by K M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her and told her you've been feeling??
During pregnancy, hormones are just a raging! She could be having some emotional things going on that you know nothing about. Speak to her - ask her if she is feeling okay. Maybe you are doing something that is annoying her (pregnancy also does that - my husband will be the first to testify to that!), and she doesn't know if she should tell you or not. Just take her out for a nice time with just the two of you and talk about things.
If things are not well between the two of you, don't stay together just for the kid. That is the wrong thing to do. If you genuinely love her, and are excited about the baby, then stick it out.
2006-07-03 07:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by volleyballchick (cowards block) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to sit down & talk to her, she is probably going through the hormone change thing since she is pregnant, try to be very understanding & be there for her when she needs you this can be a difficult time for some people. So just have patience
2006-07-03 07:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by roxy10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion he best way to go is to sit her down and talk to her. Ask her if she still feels the same way about you as she used to. Then, depending on her answer, decide what the best thing to do is. I hope that helped a bit and good luck!
2006-07-03 07:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by alliecatbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones are probably raging due to pregnancy, just be supportive and give her some room. Or maybe she's just too young and immature to know what she wants. Try not being so damn nice to her. I know it sounds stupid, but sometimes it works. Maybe you're being too sweet.
2006-07-07 09:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by lady_dragonfly_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be her hormones that is causing this new person to emerge. If it is you will just have to be patient with her. If she has always been like this then you need to make better choices on who you date and get pregnant
2006-07-03 07:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by fall78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just great that you really like your girlfriend of 4 months. Way to go.
2006-07-03 07:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by fanofpi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant, it could simply be her hormones. Stick with her and the baby and things will get better.
2006-07-03 07:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to write English because it took me extra time to cyphen through your grammer.
2006-07-03 07:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is about to have a child then its probably just her hormones.talk to her and tell her how you feel but try to not hurt her feelings.
2006-07-03 07:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by rubydogsgreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋