My boyfriend has drinking probles. When his drunk he tends to hate me. When his sober he loves me, but then I'm mad because of the drinking. I love him, I want to help him, but he doesen't want to be help. He can't see that at the age of 25 he is an alcoholic. The drinking has affected our relationship. We never go out, I don't want to be with him (you know how) because of it.
2006-07-03 06:59:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can tell him its me or the alcohol, pal... too many families are ruined by drinking. you can stop this from happening to your life too... especially if he's an abusive drunk (verbal, sexual, physical etc)...and if he won't love himself enough to confront the problem, walk away.. there's only hurt. there...
2006-07-03 07:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by rollarcoaster brain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things will only worsen, especially the abuse. He could physically abuse you next. If he doesn't want the help then he doesn't love you - sorry to say. You don't need to be someone who is like Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde.
2006-07-03 07:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not change until he decides to change it and until then you will be frustrated and miserable. Tell him what you think and then be prepared to act in accordance if you don't see a difference.
2006-07-03 07:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by brokenheartsyndrome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Force him into treatment. You can do it if you put your mind to it...and your love will grow when he gets sober
2006-07-03 07:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should help him . maybe if you leave him he can think about himself and you some more. maybe if you leave him he stop drinking.if he don't love you so then you know it because he didn't stop it. so plz leave him just for sometimes then choose what to do.
2006-07-03 07:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by fatima_blue68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave, why should you be miserable? If you're not happy move on there always something better.
2006-07-03 07:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
leave him.
there are lots of fish in the sea, and most of them don't smell like vodka and tell you that they hate you.
2006-07-03 07:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by BenTippett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-07-03 07:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋