My girlfriend has hair all over her body. I don't really date girls who has more hair than me, but she has this really great personality. Most people make fun of her, she even has a moustache and more armpit hair than me. She;s Asian and 13.
Help me
Thank you
2006-07-03 06:50:13 · 25 answers · asked by Jayhawk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Surprising, most asians have less body hair than caucasians, but I guess you get a lot of variation with anybody. Maybe it's just more visible on her because her hair is dark?
Anyway, she's 13, so yes, she's a little young to be dating, let alone shaving her body hair.
As to whether she wants to shave her body hair or not, that's up to her: you shouldn't be pressuring her to, she isn't going to appreciate it. I know most American girls shave their armpit hair and leg hair, but most girls in most other countries and cultures don't. If she decides not to, you need to either take her or leave her as she is: it's a package deal. If she does shave, it's going to feel bristley, and she may get ingrowing hairs (which look a lot like zits, but take longer to heal and are more annoying). So frankly I don't really recommend it. Personally, if I were her, I'd probably shave the mustache and maybe trim my pubic hair a bit, and leave the rest.
2006-07-03 07:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all, unless her being hairy (they call it hirsute) turns you off. If it does, it isn't going to help for her to shave anything ... it will always be in your way subconsciously.
If you're not turned off by it, I think shaving her underarms and legs is a good idea. I would suggest it to her, and tell her most *women* shave those and that you think of her more as a "woman" than a "girl".
Shaving anything else would not be of great benefit. Shaving her "moustache", in fact, might promote further, heavier growth!
Some people's genetic code just makes them more hirsute than others. Some people "wear it" better than others, also.
If you like this girl ... why be bothered by something over which she has no control? If she has a great personality and you like her ... stick with it, my friend ... stick with it!
2006-07-03 06:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her why she doesn't shave? Maybe her parents won't let her or maybe it is a religious thing. It sounds to me like she knows it is not attractive to most people. It is black I assume so there is really no way of hiding it. I think if her parents are ok with it she really should shave.
2006-07-03 06:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you shouldn't be dating a 13 yr old. Second, it is up to her if she want's to shave. So let it be. If you don't like then move on. If you do. Then fabulous.
2006-07-03 06:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by kitty kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to see her doctor first she may have a hormone problem especially if she's Asian(male and female usually don't have alot of body hair)
2006-07-03 06:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by swddrb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u have to look at her life style and her back ground and talk t her about tell her u feel and then listen to her feeling about it
if that doesn't work well than all u can do is exect it and love her
for who she is, good luck man
2006-07-03 06:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by mact600 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can use every kind of shaving, epilation, vax,... and after it she should use DERMA HAIR CONTROL. It really helps! it may be expensive, but it remove her unwanted hair slowly by using every day.
2006-07-03 07:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by arezoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to than she doesn't have to. If you like her then you shouldn't worry about it but try to get one of her friends to tell her about without having her know it was you.
2006-07-03 06:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by tarzan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think she should. I shave almost all the time.
2006-07-03 06:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jillypooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H3ll y3s she should talk to her about it. T3ll her how u feel n if she cares bout u n her self then she will do it.
2006-07-03 06:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋