Been married 6 years and am now divorced, just started dating again and am having some trouble with a certain young lady.
2006-07-03 06:48:21 · 13 answers · asked by datingagaintx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both......you should hopefully both feel comfortable in letting eachother know how or what your feeling....if she doesn't agree or if she feels differently, then the worst she can do is simply tell you ....just be honest no matter what...I think a man who is honest and direct is waaaay better than someone who you are desperately trying to figure out.....I know that it's a little awkward but you'll feel better in the end....just go with the flow and see what happens, ya never know...she may beat you to the punch!
Good Luck!
2006-07-03 06:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 11⤊ 1⤋
Both need to be upfront and honest about how they feel. If you're both too nervous to say "I care about you, and want more" the relationship will halt because no one will push... or "that's not what gives me the most pleasure in bed" you won't have enjoyable sex which is just another obstacle to a healthy LTR... or "i'm enjoying your company, but not looking to be in a serious relationship right now" and them thinking that you ARE ready, can be a disaster... You need a strong communication as a basis for a stronger relationship. Good luck to you.
2006-07-03 06:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term "job" implies work. This is a feeling, if it is mutual, who cares? At the very least, the truth will be known, right?
2006-07-03 06:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Versatile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Just get up the nerve and tell her how you feel. It's up to both to help the relationship, not just one party.
2006-07-03 06:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by kitty kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going thru same situation.. I think LOVE is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. if you are into this person(love) you got to tell her, before tooo late. .... trust me.
2006-07-03 06:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by monopoly_cc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its no ones job.... if either one of you have a problem you need to voice that, in a way that isnt going to sound demeaning or argumentative..... just tell her what you feel...... communication is key, dont keep anything inside, it wont work out later on!
2006-07-03 06:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Qgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a shared responsibility. Don't jump into anything too fast. Don't confuse loneliness with love.
2006-07-03 06:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question u need to ask ur self is how do feel about him is it going to be wurth it to tell him how u feel and just be honest to ur self and to him , good luck
2006-07-03 06:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by mact600 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTH OF YOU SHOULD BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER. CONVERSATION PLAYS A BIG PART IN ANY RELATIONSHIP
2006-07-03 06:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, you both should tell each other how you feel, even if it's not what they want to hear.
2006-07-03 06:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋