This is a real problem (or so I'm told) It just started this year. I can't stop thinking about animals mainly neglected animals. Or if its cold/or very hot out I just feel so bad for all the animals that have to be out side cause they don't have the choice to go in. Its getting to were its what I think about a LOT!!!!! If I'm driving some where I'm always looking for strays I have been known to take them home and find them a home, My husband hates that I wont get over this!! Anyone know whats going on with me??? Or how to help!! Please I don't want any rude comments!! I already feel like **** about this. THANKS!!
2006-07-03 06:45:15 · 18 answers · asked by v 2 in Pets ➔ Dogs
I could have written that! Not just dogs, cats, all critters. I'm always watching the side of the road, I feel like I'm going crazy. I don't think its crazy to want to help... I do everything I can. But, we can't do everything or save everyone. I don't have the answer, but the same question. I tell myself "can't do it all" but that doesn't stop me from obsessing. We're doing a great thing, its good to care. But somehow we have to make sure we don't go insane in the process. Really not an answer... just right there with you!
2006-07-03 06:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Amy W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I want to know how you can feel like **** for being such a kind and caring person. If more peolpe acted the way you do there wouldn't be those poor animals left out and neglected. I too am the same way. Well I have had to quit bringing them home cuz my honey finally put his foot down. I still worry about those poor animals all the time. I am glad to know that I am not the only one out there who feels this way. I would say keep up the good work. Where do you live??? This lady I know opened up a shelter and runs it on donations and stuff. If you can't do that maybe volunteer at the local shelter. You probably have enough to worry about just by the animals around so you may noty want to go to the shelter but it is a good way to let some of those feelings out towards the animal it is for. Please don't feel like sjit you are a beautiful person for caring keep it up.
2006-07-03 13:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely sound like you have a heart for animals and that's a wonderful thing!
Instead of "obsessing" over it and driving around looking for strays? Spend your spare time volunteering at your local county animal shelter or A.S.P.C.A..or any humane society for animals you can find. It may not be a glamorous volunteer job for instance..you might be giving baths(messy) and picking up dog and cat poop and washing down the kennels or cages. But I did that for 5 years and i must say it is so rewarding. If you have any experience for example with clippers..That's great! Lots of long hair dogs come in so neglected and a little trim makes all the difference. Just taking out all the matted mess and cleaning them up so they are more desirable for adoption is the greatest feeling ever.
Just call or look in your phone book ..you have a computer use it to research different places you live by and get information from there.If one place says no go to the next. Trust me THEY NEED YOUR HELP!..worrying about it is one thing(not very constructive at all)..but helping the problem and feeling good about it is a whole different story!..YOU can make a difference.
I know i did.
2006-07-03 14:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, I'm obsessed with animals also. I wouldn't say it's really a problem. But if your husband hates it then yes it is a problem. Try to find a way where you can help animals that makes your both(you and your husband) happy. Try volunteer work at a humane society or, if it's okay with your husband, open an animal shelter out of your home. And it's alright for animals to be outside, you know that right? Dogs,especially big dogs, have all the equipment they need to survive outside. All the need is a little help from people(food,water,etc.).
2006-07-03 13:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by ChaoticChicaLovesJT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you,you just love animals. I'm the same way. I live in Mo. and I always see dead animals on the side of the road,it freaks me out and I get depressed seeing it all the time. I see dogs and cats walking along side the road and I want to take them home, I fear next time i see them,they will be dead in the middle of the road. Once I saw A German Shepard get hit by a car and I made my husband pull over so that we could help the dog. The dog died and i balled my eyes out. My husband says no way when ever I want to take animals home. We have a large male cat that does not like other animals.I know I will never get over feeling the way I do,don't feel bad. God bless and take care. Oh,my grandma is the same way. All the homeless cats in her neighborhood goes to her house to hang out and eat.Some of the poor cats are so beat up,but she has names for all of them.
2006-07-03 13:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to agree with the folks who have suggested taking active measures to help. Bringing in strays isn't really the answer, but you could volunteer at a local shelter, do something that will really make a difference for animals in need. If that doesn't help, you may even want to think about seeing a therapist. It doesn't mean you're crazy--it just might be something you need some help to work through.
2006-07-03 14:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by star_momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion there is nothing wrong with you. Since when is caring about something a bad thing. But, if you need something to help you sleep I maybe able to help. You need to remember that a dog's body is built to live outside. They very strong and can handle almost any weather condition and they are very good survivors. I think you are doing a great thing in finding strays new homes I only wish more people felt like you feel. I hope this helps a little.
2006-07-03 14:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by Randy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with wanting to help mistreated animals, but anything that becomes such an obession of your daily time and thought that it interferes with your ability to function is a problem. If this is really bothering you, or others around you are noticing that you are spending your energy on this one thing at the expense of things that must be done (going to work, eating, personal grooming) or you used to really enjoy (hanging out with friends, family time, etc.) then seek professional help. It's nothing to be ashamed of- just speak to a pyschiatrist about it and let them help you decide if this is a problem or not.
2006-07-03 14:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by wabbitqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obsession can be a bad thing when it's coupled with dangerous activities. As long as you're not harboring dozens of dogs in an effort to help them, and you limit the number of dogs you take in at one time (one sounds good for a non-professional) then I see no problem.
Now, if this behaviour starts to affect your homelife, your work, or take over parts of your life that you wish it would not, I would suggest you speak to a caring professional about your 'obsession'.
2006-07-03 13:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Marvinator 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very caring person. The important thing to keep in mind is PERSPECTIVE. Yes, it is sad about the animals. If it is affecting your personal relationships, think about what your life would be like without these people in your life. You are one person, you can help some animals, but not all. It is good to help the animals you can, but don't obsess about it. Feel good about the ones you did help.
2006-07-03 13:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋