2006-07-03 06:21:19 · 14 answers · asked by Peachy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Breaking up with someone it's hard...It feels like part of our body ahs been torn up part! Dating someone new is the fastest way...but there are other ways but it takes a longer time to heal. It took me 2 years to completely move on..this is what i did:
*keep myself occupied with studies (i was still a student..if ur working maybe u can concetrate more on ur careere)
*Always keep myself accompany by friends or family, try not to be alone
*Driving aimlessly, driving helps to take your mind off things sometimes.
*Pent down all your feelings in a diary when you can't bear the pain..you will find urself writting out all your feelings and at one point you will find that there's nothing for you to write anymore, that's when you maybe you have forgotten about ur ex
*Go play some sports...do something that requires you to used your brain...to keep ur mind off ur ex
*Sleep if u can't take in the pian
*Try doing things you like
*Venture into new things, bunge jumping, etc
*Keep all the things he gave you in a box or hide it somewhere u can't see it
*and most of all, love yourself!
*remember this: We come into this world alone, we will die alone, so you can live without him!
*And the one who's on the loss is him, because he has lost someone who loves him very much and you are lucky you have lost someone who doesn't love you...(if this applies to your situation)
Most important of all you need to look forward and make it clear to yourself that the both of you can NEVER be together!Ihope all the pointers i gave you will help you in getting a frsh start! Good luck!
2006-07-03 07:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Shining StaR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time, of course, but I'm sure that you figured that already. The easiest way besides that is to throw yourself into the single life as soon as you are ready. Flirt, shop and be a girl. To get ready you should confide in freinds or family, and try to do whatever it is that you enjoyed, and chances are that there is something you loved, that he didn't and you didn't get to do much. Find a new hobby. The last thing tht I would suggest is to date someone new.
2006-07-03 13:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by kevin m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend broke up with me very suddenly 7 weeks ago & I'm still stunned & still trying to get over it. All I can say is find something else to do. When your mind begins to dwell on him & your hurt, get busy with a hobby, clean your house, something. Join a gym & exercise daily, take a vacation by yourself, get a diary & write out everything you're feeling & then burn it - so you exorcise him from your heart & your mind. Just keep going, one day at a time. Good luck - let's both hope it gets better cos I don't intend to date someone new, either.
2006-07-03 13:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over someone is always hard to do and jumping into another relationship is not the way to get over someone. For starters you could just hang out with some of your friends as a group and not one on one.
2006-07-03 13:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--Pamper yourself. Do something to improve your appearance - a haircut is the classic after-breakup way! --Challenge yourself. Do one thing you've always been afraid/reluctant to do. It can be anything from eating a meal alone in a restaurant to bungee jumping depending on what challenges you in particular. --Purge something. Weed out the closet and bring donations to charity. These all entail forward movement and a feeling of turning over a new leaf.
2006-07-03 13:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some you time - pamper yourself... go get your nails done, get a haircut - try something new and crazy, go all out. Get some frustration out at the gym. So the next time he sees you, you will look great and maybe a little more tone and he will eat his heart out. Just do something for you! You have been thinking about him and pleasing him now it is your turn.
2006-07-03 13:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy. Take up a hobby or a sport. Hang out with your friends more often. Date yourself (dress up and go to the movies and a restaurant by yourself).
2006-07-03 13:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont date any one new now ... its not good for both of you . You need some time 1st to adjust with the new situation.
2006-07-03 13:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. Keep yourself busy with friends and activities to take your mind off it. Eventually you will get over it and feel ready to move on.
2006-07-03 13:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a wonderful thing.....give some to yourself, do not get involved again just to be with someone...
2006-07-03 13:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by ndmagicman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋