did we actually love each other?

Question

ok so my really good friend and i wer planning to hav a relationship soon but thn me and my other friend(now my gf)went and hung out and became better known to each other.i can c my gf all the time and we hang out and kiss all the time.but with the other girl i kno i culdnt hav had tht.the first girl is now majorly pissed at me and wont even answer wen i call or she will jus han g up wen i do.im so confused at y she wont let me explain and y she wont even talk to me wen we had such a good relationshjip in the first place.

Answer 1

Dolhpin 2253 and BlondeBooBoo are right. She does feel betrayed because you didn't consult her in the matter. She thought that the two of you had the best thing ever. Then when you got with that other chick, she felt extreamly betrayed, even when just a few days b4 you guys had a conversation on how you two were gonna have an awsome relationship l8r. I think that she thinks that you wanted some substinence and wanted it then and now!! Even though you may have loved her, and she may have loved you, she felt as if you didn't want to wait bcuz you wanted some action. I think the first girl is willing to forgive, but you probably, will never have that good of a relationship again. I think she misses the true and thoughful you who really wanted there to be chemistry, but there never was quite enough for you. Who knows. Give her a call and maybe just get back on the friends track. She's had some time to think by now.

Answer 2

If the relationship was so good...how did you wind up with your current girlfriend? Doesn't make sense to me. Leave her alone, she isn't ready to talk to you yet. You'll know when she is ready, she will call you.

Answer 3

Cause you made a move without mentioning it to her (the first) and now she feels shafted. Let her go man...she may never forgive you.

Answer 4

Because she feels like you betrayed her maybe.