He is a very busy guy, he works a full time job as well as working 2 freelance jobs. Being that he & I are so busy and not looking to jump into anything serious right away, we decided to keep things casual & take it slow, and promised to be honest with each other. While there was always space inbetween the times we saw each other, we kept in contact about once or twice a week.
We both have told each other that there was instant chemistry & that we both like spending time together & how much he appreciates the space I give him.
Last time we saw each other, he told me to call him. I texted him a week later asking how he was doing, he responded "fine". I waited over a week & sent him an email asking how he was & if he was angry with me, apologizing if I had unintentionally upset him. He read it & didn't respond. 2 weeks later I emailed asking if he still wanted to go to a concert that was coming up, same thing.
I know he's not dating & doesnt have a gf. Why is he doing this?
2006-07-03 05:31:23 · 11 answers · asked by NYCgirl4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he does have problems with depression. I'm not sure how much he uses, but he does drink and do drugs.
2006-07-03 05:40:04 · update #1
I also have some stuff of his (dvds & cds), doesnt he want those back?
2006-07-03 05:45:15 · update #2
He's not that into you. Move on.
2006-07-03 05:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by ewa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be dealing with some inner turmoil or some problem but he's definitely not interested anymore and it's probably nothing you've done. he may have depression problems or anything you just don't know. he may have a real issue about having 'space' that means he doesn't want a relationship at all and is being a coward. let him go..he's not for you..you were laying down to many rules from the very beginning. why do you think you don't deserve a committed relationship and why do you think this means you won't have 'space'? stop selling yourself short. you're ok he's not and you found out without too much heartache. don't waste anymore time on him.
2006-07-03 05:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 issues to do...first is call INS(immigration) 2nd call police. If #a million would not artwork then attempt #2. If #2 would not artwork purchase a handgun for the homestead and a small field of pepper spray. i do no longer think of you need to have any luck with a restraining order considering the fact that maximum illegals are frightened of regulation enforcement and the courts. exchange your telephone selection and don't provide him the hot selection or to any of his standard buddies. exchange your workouts of shuttle, places you circulate to or any element else this guy is conscious approximately you. i know it looks like your hiding yet regrettably that's the playing cards your dealt.
2016-11-01 03:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by sokin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just doesn't like you enough. You said both of you are busy right ? But yet you find time to contact him. Your making yourself crazy over a guy that just isn't into you enough. He is keeping you on the side until what he really wants comes along. End this stupid relationship and open your heart up to meeting someone else. This is a waste of your time.
2006-07-03 05:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1416909532/qid=1151944509/sr=2-2/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_2/002-0137751-3822425?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
2006-07-03 05:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sucks. That is his was of saying that he is no longer interested. Sounds like not the type of guy that you want to date. Move on there are better guys out there.
2006-07-03 05:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by 12252 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably decided that you weren't right for him, and doesn't know how to be a man and tell you. You're better off looking somewhere else.
2006-07-03 05:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him.That is his way of telling you to move on.
2006-07-03 05:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just not that into you. Give him one more chance- then if he doesn't come groveling at your feet- Fugheddabout him!
2006-07-03 05:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on thats his way of saying he's not interested....
2006-07-03 05:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋