so here it is...
theres this guy that im pretty sure likes me and i dont know what to do next. should i call him? ask him out? WHAT? im only 14 so dont reply with anything dramatic. plz give me some tips on what i can do without scaring him off. THANKS!!
2006-07-03 05:30:16 · 18 answers · asked by tha names corn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice is to make sure you do some of the same things he likes to do ... and you'll end up "accidentally" running into him quite a bit. If you and he enjoy the same things ... there's a better chance you'll get along when dating.
Don't chase after him! That is the biggest mistake many girls make. It makes the guy feel like he can get anything he wants from the girl ... without really caring about her feelings.
Let him do the chasing! Make sure you "happen" to be at a lot of the things he goes to and does, and make eye contact and flirt a VERY little bit. Send him signals that you would be interested IF he was interested.
Let him do the asking, honey. If he never does, it wouldn't have been a good relationship anyway ... and you'd have ended up with a broken heart and, just maybe, without your virginity!
2006-07-03 05:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he would ever want to hangout sometime with you or with a group of people. Better yet, if you know of something that is coming up, ask if he is going or would like to go. Just make sure there isn't any pressure involved and don't say anything about you thinking he may like you.
2006-07-03 12:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by NYCgirl4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanan make the 1st move then u can start to chat with him in the msn cuz it aint as shy as talkin on the phone (it will end up both of u r speechless) but if u want him to make the 1st move, just walk around him or make sure u get his attention. then he will ask u out for a dinner or soemthing (if he is not that kind of shy guy)
2006-07-03 12:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him get to know him better and watch for signs that he likes you. Also make him comfertable around you. Then ask if he wants to go to the movies a walk a cafe or just to hang. Good luck!
2006-07-03 12:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. Ask him to go to lunch--simple but casual. Let him be the next to make a move. Be safe.
2006-07-03 12:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by buck'sgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mi big bro is 14 and he asked a girl out cause he went with his instinct! you probably dont like getting advice from somebody younger dan u but i say go for it!
2006-07-03 12:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to something light- like lunch. Lunch is good, because it sounds more like a friends thing than a serious make-out-with-me-in-the-dark-movie-theater thing.
2006-07-03 12:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him and ask him how he feels if it is what you want to hear tell him you feel .you can only try and know the true answer instead of guessing give it a shot.
2006-07-03 12:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by hot chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him go up and talk 2 him if he does like u it shud work out but talk 2 him when hes alone 2 avoid the stress of his friends there
2006-07-03 12:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♣♣Brick♠♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe call him and meet him at the mall or somewhere for a snack. See what develops.
2006-07-03 12:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋