im 17. and i have only made-out once. it was pretty embaressing being that old and never really have made-out before. so anyways, i dont really know how to do it. so i need your guys help. if possbile, can you please let me know in good detail on what to do, maybe step-by-step?and i know that everyone says "just go with the flow" or, "it comes natural" and im sure thats true. but im still nervous about it. please help! that would help so much! thankyou!
2006-07-03 04:55:48 · 21 answers · asked by punker_girl727374 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hehe. I was 16 before i ever made out with anyone.
Trust me, please, this isnt something you learn by hearing about. You have to be "taught" by someone. You learn from experience, not from being told.
When you are in a good relationship with a guy you trust and love, tell him you suck at making out, but that you're a blank page, so he can teach you the ropes.
I PROMISE he wont mind.
2006-07-03 04:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 17. Don't through your life away on making out or having sex. The most beautiful thing about your first night with the one you want to spend the rest of your life with are those awkward moments in which you don't know what to do. Yeah, you will feel embarrassed, but you will love every minute of it afterward. Don't concern yourself with making out. I've known people who didn't even hold hands until the day they got married. Concentrate of school work. The fun times will come when you have found the right person.
2006-07-03 12:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by chemical_kenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it DOES just happen naturally. Kissing is going to be different with every partner... If you are making out with someone who has done it before, then go with it. Let your mouth open slightly and kiss him lightly on the lips a few times. Then you can gently slide your tongue into his mouth and feel around for his. The guy I am with right now likes to feel my teeth, and I bite his tongue a lot. Everyone likes something different, and every person kisses differently. It's scary your first few times, but it's good to have those nerves... makes it better, I think.
2006-07-03 12:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get alone with a guy, Im sure he'll walk you through it, just decide what you are going to do before you get into that situation, dont let him talk you into to anything you are not ready for.
2006-07-03 12:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't try to be funny, guys don't like girls that dominate. First, say some nice things to him to break the ice, e.g. Your hair look great, or sth like that. That try to pretend that you're impressed with what he says or does (just don't overdo). This works great on guys (they like to be admired). Be gentle and girlish, and fragile. The main rule-don't be smarter that he is. Good luck, girl!
2006-07-03 12:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by friday's child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your that nervous maybe you should wait till you get to know your partner better and all the nervous feeling will probably go away..
2006-07-03 11:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by taking your shirt off. Then the guy will walk you through the rest. Dont worry if it goes to fast. They will want to try again later.
2006-07-03 11:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um theres nothing to be nervouse or embarased about if u dont realy know what to do just let the guy take controll a lil bit
2006-07-03 11:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by mountianbiker_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a good book on the subject, and the best advice IS go with the flow
2006-07-03 11:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry!!! worrying about it will just make it uncomfy!! i am sure that the boy will take control so flow with it but it your really that worried...
1.pucker up
2. don't bang into each oter make it gentle but still enough to be worth it
3. if don't use your tongue first don't make it boring
have fun!!! i'm sure it'll go fine hunny you go girl LOL
2006-07-03 12:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋