grandma died april12 2006 in my house icalled 911 i did cpr too but she died in the house sometimes get guilty cause i wasnt that nice to her what to do
2006-07-03 04:55:24 · 18 answers · asked by I_want_to_know 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't have to do anything. Your guilt is not necessary, dear. People die and there's nothing you can do about that.
If you feel bad, try talking to someone about it--what you're feeling isn't necessarily guilt, it's probably grief and it's normal. It's only been three months--my grandmother died in 1984 and I still miss her.
And try to be nice to elderly people everywhere--they can't help being elderly and they don't choose to have problems. Put yourself in their shoes (as you will be some day) and think before you act about how difficult it is to be old and ill in a world that doesn't value your age or your contribution.
2006-07-03 05:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Christin K 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because she is no longer here doesn't mean you still can't talk to her. I'am sure she has forgiven you and she loves you very much. She knows all that you tried to do for her and guilt is the last thing she wants you to feel. Keep holding on to the good memories and forget the bad, your grandma has.
2006-07-03 09:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by davidjudyrices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault! U did everything you could! Try to remember the nicest moments, and if u still cannot stop thinking of that tell your family and friends, they can help you to get over that. I understand what u r saying cuz my grandpa died 2 years ago and I felt guilty about that, but then I understood that I'm not as powerful as to kill someone, and I'm not as powerful as to keep someone alive (unfortunately)
2006-07-03 05:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Genio Atrapado 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter how you treated her,she knew deep down that you loved her.she will know that you didnt have maturity,yet,she would want you to be happy in your life.Grandmas have had their life,usually a long life.I lost my grandmother.I would never feel guilty about anything,she wouldnt want me to be miserable,dont you be.she will be looking down on you.show her you are going to do something good with your life,be a good person.Its never too late to make changes.
2006-07-03 05:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to somebody in your family, if you want to, or somebody else about it. Pray and ask for forgiveness and that you wish you could've been nicer to her.
Don't feel so guilty. Think about it, you tried to save her, but it was just her time to go.
2006-07-03 05:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by just_breathe_x3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, but we are all guilty of not being nice all the time, you tried to save her life with cpr, that shows what kind of person you really are...you're not a bad person we all have bad days,...
2006-07-03 05:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for her and ask for forgiveness. But you must remember one thing you must not do this again with someone else. this is a great knowledge for you. You must remember this incident throughout your life.
2006-07-03 05:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your grandma but I'm sure she's smiling down at you because deep inside you loved her and she sees that.
2006-07-03 05:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take heart in knowing that when you get old people won't treat you very well either.
2006-07-03 05:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by etngapech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your grandmother. You can pray for her and ask for forgiveness.
2006-07-03 04:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋