is there men out there that would go with women that have kids please help !!!!!!!
2006-07-03 04:45:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. But do not hide the fact that you have a son. Be proud, if they can not accept him, you dont want them. Also dont make it look like your looking for a "daddy", but let them get to know each other at thier own pace. The more relaxed you are, the sexier you are to men. In todays world, kids are a non factor for intelligent men.
2006-07-03 04:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are men who will be with a woman with children. But you need to stop sounding so desperate to find your child a "daddy" before you mess around and put the wrong person in your child's life out of your own neediness. A good mother would keep all men AWAY from her child unless it gets so serious that you marry him. You don't want men in and out of his life because he may get attached and there is no guarantee the man will stick around. What will this do to your child emotionally? Then YOU'RE the one who will have to pick up the pieces of his little broken heart because "daddy" doesn't come around anymore.
2006-07-03 11:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are. You have to remember a lot of guys have kids of their own from previous relationships, despite what you might think, many men do like children, and would be happy to get involved with someone who already has kids, I'm a bloke who has been in that situation. Don't panic, your time will come.
2006-07-03 11:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Heatseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There definitely are.
You just have to be patient and careful.
My husband married me and I already had 5 kids by a previous relationship.
It's kinda like at the Bargain Bin....you sometimes have to sort through a lot of crap to get to the good stuff, but once you find the good stuff, you'll be glad you kept "sorting".
Don't give up too soon, or someone else may find your prize.
Good luck!
2006-07-03 11:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by momma265 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of men have no issues about dating women with a child or children. Relax...you're coming across as desperate (nearly hysterical) and THAT is not the way to get a guy (at least not a keeper). Don't be looking for someone to take care of you, to be a father to your child, or to fix what's wrong in your life...get yourself in a place where you are doing well for yourself, diggin' life, your child is your priority, and then you'll be ready to consider bringing in someone else to share that with you.
2006-07-03 11:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The amount of "stepparents" in this world proves that others are willing to enter a relationship with someone that already has children. You'll find some that aren't interested, but ultimately the answer to your question is YES, there are plenty out there!
2006-07-03 11:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by sees_lwo_na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thiink guys will definatly go for you reguardless of your child i mean the only reason why they wouldn't go for your because of your kids is because they are afraid of a commitment or just hate kids most likely
i thiink you will find someone and if you don't that will be okay because you and your son will have a happy life together
and if the guy loves you i think he should be fine with your child being there and try to become friends and maybe more to your child
2006-07-03 11:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by wutsupdog345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of men that like girls with kids
their all also a lot that dont
they dont want to get stuck with the kid
so when you talk to men
say that you do have a son and you have complete control over him
and your happy and you support him and etc.
so they dont think that they will be supporting
the kid all the way if anything happends between you
2006-07-03 11:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Stephanie Louise♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men out there who will go with any woman! they do not have to feel emotionally commited to go with a girl. If she offers, they may well accept. You should value yourself much more than this however, and you should be looking for a guy with qualities which YOU find attractive. You need to do some work with building your confidence and realise that a guy will be lucky to date you. Once you realise this, so will he
2006-07-03 12:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a problem, actually it is quite common, but you have to think like a single woman. Keep up your looks, and your ability to be fun and sexy. Don't get into a "Mom Rut," it ruins marriages, and will destroy any relationship quicker than anything.
2006-07-03 11:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by Bobby T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋