2006-07-03 04:44:02 · 9 answers · asked by buckhunter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And most of the men I know seem to like b******. Keep looking. You'll find a nice girl.
2006-07-03 04:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by WEIRDRELATIVES 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men being jerks is a understatement! All the nice guys are swallowed up so fast, all that's left is these men that I think fly up out of the earth and attack women. They kind of remind you of those flying monkey's in the Wizard of OZ. LOL
Have a great 4th of July.
2006-07-03 04:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I havent read the replies.
But for one, I think it depends on where you meet the women. The women of the bar scene are (no offense women) mostly looking for the jerks. They want the short term kind of thing.
If you want a woman of stability or "marrying type" you need to start looking in more traditional places ie: libraries, cooking classes, college classes that offer more traditional womans educations (cooking, sewing, religion, etc), Church.
Best of luck to you!
(Married 20+ years)
2006-07-03 05:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by AccountableLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to understand that 90% of women will not approach a man they're attracted to. Women will sit back and wait to be approached and then make a choice based on their male options.
That said, "nice guys" don't tend to approach women because they're afraid of being rejected. When nice guys do approach women finally, they tend to be nervous and quiet, and this comes off as lacking confidence. A lack of confidence is a major turn off to most women.
Therefore, the agressive men (bad boys) are the ones women are attracted to. First of all, they're way confident. Secondly, they have more practice at talking to women and asking them out because they're not afraid of being rejected! You'd be amazed at how many women would LOVE to go out with you if you simply asked them without sounding like you're asking them to clean your bathroom. When you ask them, make jokes, compliment them and act like you're the best catch walking on the face of the planet. They'll be waiting by the phone wondering when you're going to call!
So, bad boys get the girls because they go out and GET WHAT THEY WANT.
2006-07-03 05:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT NICE GUYS ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THEMSELVES AND THEY TEND TO ALLOW A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN TO PASS AS A RESULT... IN OTHER WORDS THEY LACK THE CONFIDENCE AND A!S!S HOLES NORMALLY DO NOT CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK SO THEY SAY WHATEVER AND IT JUST SO HAPPENS IT APPEALS TO A WOMAN... SHE TAKES THE BAIT... IT NEVER LAST LONG THOUGH.... BUT HONESTLY IF YOU ARE A NICE GUY THEN SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF... MAKE YOUR FEELINGS KNOWN TO THE WOMAN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO... TREAT HER RIGHT FROM THE START..... DO PLAY NICE GUY ROLE AND THEN BECOME AN A HOLE.... WELL HOPE THIS HELPS ( OH I LIKE NICE GUYS, THEY ARE JUST SO HARD TO FIND)..... GOD LUCK FINDING YOUR SPECIAL LADY THOUGH....
2006-07-03 06:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by rawdawgsgo_hard2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt say that women like men that ar ejerks. cause not all do. I'll rather have a nice guy than an @ss wipe.
2006-07-03 04:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by you_me_set 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys that think they are so nice and sweet are usually wimps and girls sense weakness and want the stronger of the two
2006-07-03 04:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met plenty of women and married one eventually....not all of them like jerks...the question you need to ask yourself, is why you like the type of women that like jerks...
2006-07-03 04:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like jerks (even though some r cute). i like nice guyz.....but they get kinda boring after a while.
2006-07-03 04:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋