Like my other two ?'s this one is about my best friend. Last night i texted messaged him and said i needed to talk to him. He called me back and had an attitude so i decided that right than isnt a good time to talk to him about us or what i had heard from other people. He began screaming and yelling at me and told me never to call him again. Now this morning he was just set on that he was done with me that quick. I got off the phone with him upset and it doesnt seem like he cared. He ?s me about stuff all the time and he got mad because i ?'d him but yet we are not together. We spend time together all the time and are at each others houses spending the night and everything is so perfect. But now he says that he doesnt want to speak to me anymore...Now i am devistated because instead of me loosing a lover i lost my best friend what do i do and do you think that he is going to call me
2006-07-03 04:37:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer to this ? is simple: Forget about him. If he's going to act that way, what kind of friend is he to begin with? Not worth the trouble - move on!
2006-07-03 04:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by sees_lwo_na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from him, go move on for a bit and let him call you. Don't get to emotional when he's acting like the ***. Give him a break from you as well. When he's ready he'll call. If he doesn't it shows he didn't miss you at all or even isn't interested in knowing how you're doing. But let it leak out thru your friends that if he needs to talk to you all he has to do is call and you'll talk. Other than that don't chase him.
2006-07-03 04:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby you should just leave him alone, for a couple of days, (which will be hard), and then call him up, or go to his house, to he cant run away from teh situation, and tell him taht you dont understand why he is doing this, and if you still want to be his friend, tell him. If he is really your best friend, the couple of days, without you, might want him to become your friend.
Trust me, i was in the same situation, as you, a couple of months ago. Also, because now it is summer vacation, maby his other friends, wont be therre to distract him as much, so you can sort out your issue with him.
GOOD LUCK!! I FEEL FOR U!!
2006-07-03 04:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though what u said is kinda hard to understand! I'd say just give the matter some time..after things have cooled off then maybe u can start getting into conversation again and try to resolve things. but just remember even if it do sent work out people will come and go from your life all the time, you just have to learn to get over it. Good Luck! hope everything works out
2006-07-03 04:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a bridge, and get on up over him & yourself!
Any person who is that 'toxic', ya probably shouldn't be around. Nothing worse than a man who acts like B**CH.
Also, you may want to put your own behavior in check, you seem like you might be a bit clingy/needy', and that is a HUGE turn-off for men.
Dontcha know, that men & women can't be friends...b/c the sex part ALWAYS gets in the way....if he's done with you 'THAT QUICK", he's prolly banging someone else, or your a psycho.
Good luck!
2006-07-03 04:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you must have done something wrong to really piss him off. So either let him cool down and move on and hope he comes to you ( If you do not you will just keep adding fuel to the fire and it will get worse) or you should just forgive and forget. Life is to great and there are to many people out there to make you happy and dont dwell. You will get over this. He is not the only person and why should you let him play your strings like that?
2006-07-03 04:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by crlynn2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you ready for this?
We really have NO idea what to tell you. We are not in your situation. e do not hear the tone of voice either of you are talking in or the exact word that are being used.
You need to learn HOW to communicate with your "best friend". If I had to run here and ask strangers on line how to deal with my best friend....that would be a bit scary.
You need to talk to him! If you two can't TALK without getting upset, try writing.
Good luck.
2006-07-03 04:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by adnerb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it will cause you a bit of pain to do this...it will prevent
a great deal of emotional (and possibly physical if he is a abuser) pain later down the road---------cut it off completely. Sever your
ties. Drop him like a hot potato. You do not deserve to be spoken
to like a animal. To be screamed at. Do not allow yourself to be
treated that way. Have pride. Hold up your head. Shoulders back.
You don't need a person who acts this way to you. Good riddance
to rubbish! If you don't give a darn about yourself--no one else will.
2006-07-03 04:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be for just a while, he might be going through some of the same feelings you are? Otherwise, you could call him when you know he's not home or whatever and leave a message about your concerns. Otherwise, give it some time, time helps allot of things come together.
2006-07-03 04:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright look you need to never talk to this *** hole ever again if a guy really likes you he would never ever do that to you and i think from what i just read he has found someone else and he doesent want to spend time with you anymore, i no that that sound horrifiying for you right now but that is no guy you want to be hanging around with.
2006-07-03 04:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by lauren g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋