I found a text message in my boyfriends phone to another girl and it said "Hey Sexy what are you doing?" And when i asked him about it he lied to me and said that his little brother sent it and finally he told me that he sent it to her. He said it was just a joke but i dont know if i should believe him after he lied to me the first time. What should i do????
2006-07-03 04:29:19 · 20 answers · asked by jess10_bchs05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and by the way we are supposed to get married in about a year.
2006-07-03 04:35:59 · update #1
I was not snooping through his cell phone he was right there beside me he knew that i had it as a matter of fact he gave it to me.
2006-07-03 04:40:15 · update #2
Believe me, he's CHEATING you 100%
2006-07-03 04:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sanja 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are very forgetful creatures, it's not that he didn't care if you saw it, HE FORGOT it was there. Don't kid yourself, listen to your intuition, it's usually right if you don't second guess yourself.
Did you ask his little brother about the msg.? Have you called the number yourself? Any unexplained times when he's not been around? Do you know this girl? Have you seen her with the little brother at your boyfriends house? Be a detective and ask alot of questions. Then set up a double date for all of you, see what happens.
2006-07-03 12:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by Maybe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he lied. He may have because he was afraid you would overreact. Why were you snooping in his phone anyways? Just because he calls someone sexy doesn't mean he is cheating. I refer to some of my male friends as Handsome or gorgeous and I am happily married. I do it in the pressence of my husband. My hubby knows where my heart and loyalty is.
2006-07-03 11:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good reason to be concerned. A man who is in love with a woman doesn't just tease other women with words like that. I think you need to dig a little bit deeper and find out what is going on for sure.
2006-07-03 11:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but why were u looking in to his cell fone any way? if u dont trust him then u probably will never trust him and thats not fare to either of u so ask him if u dont belive it then just do what ur heart tells u
2006-07-03 11:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by mountianbiker_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a seriuos talk with him and tell him not to lie. i found out my wife cheated on me a few times in our relationship, and it hurts a lot more to find out from friends or someone else later on than to just have him admitt it so you can move on with your life. if he is going to be man enough to cheat he should be man enough to own up to his actions
2006-07-03 11:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by buckhunter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The red flag is up.. Go with instinct,not the heart
2006-07-03 11:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by beatlepath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont believe him. why did he lie in the first place? think about it. does that sound like something funny? no. sounds like a greeting to a girl he finds attractive. think about it. move on.
2006-07-03 11:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by IvebeenAbadbadgrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cut him loose but if your in it for the long haul keep close tabs on him if he slipped once he's bound to do it again
2006-07-03 11:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not a cheater yet, but he's not making a good case for himself. I would watch out for him.
2006-07-03 11:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have sex with another guy in front of him, that will teach the cheating bastard lol
2006-07-03 11:32:30 · answer #11 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋