hi to all! Im in touch with this attractive guy who finds me attractive, basically we met once just recently for a short time and now getting to know each other for friendship for the last couple of weeks.
I started to realise that i now have strong feelings for him,and i really want to start dating him,however he is so busy he hardly calls me this just makes it so frustrating for me as i hate to go behind ppl and call them. what do i do???
being a typical guy he has complimented me several times like he thinks im amazing looking,however guys are such liars they only tell you what you want to hear.
its still early days im so afraid of messing things up!
My second QUESTION IS: guys (player or no player) would you lead girls on even if you dont want to be with them,if so why???
thank you for your time!
2006-07-03 04:20:02 · 9 answers · asked by Nasty Gurl From Around The World 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may find you attractive but not want to date you. He may find you attractive and want to date you but is not in a position to do so right now. He may be complimenting you on your appearance out of courtesy. He may be sitting home right now thinking about how to ask you out and not know how to do so. Bottom line -- you need to clear the air and find out where he is in the friendship/relationship. Ask him why you haven't gone out and if this is even a possibility in the future. Ask him if there is someone else he is considering or is currently involved with. Go to the source.
2006-07-03 04:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you like this guy it's not good to all ready associate him with all the other men and think he's a liar and telling you what you want to hear. You also have to think that if he's too busy now and your not even in a relationship are you going to be able to deal with him not calling you 24/7? He could be genuinely busy. I feel you tho on the fact you don't want to be calling him all the time. What I do is just text him, thinking of ya. Short and sweet but letting him know that he is on your mind. See how he responds to that. Hope this helps a little
2006-07-03 11:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how u feel and then leave the rest up to him! the ball will be in his court!, if u start ringing him alot then u might pressure him to either ignore u or get with u and feel trapped and thats when ull get hurt!,
as for q2 the reason some guys do it is because they might not have the bottle to tell u the truth or maybe scared of hurting u! they think they are doing the right thing but dnt realise its wrong, were not all bad! good luck.
2006-07-03 11:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by ben777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a player to me, if he was truly into you he would drop everything to talk to you at least. Your gut instinct is telling you not to chase him, follow it and move on. If he is serious about you he would have done something more meaningful than just compliment you by now.
Good Luck girl...someones waiting for you, you just need to keep your eyes open and be patient.
wanderer
2006-07-03 11:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like to see how far a girl will go... And it is the "chase" that turns them on... Once they have the prize, it is over...
Some guys just like to tease...
And some guys are very genuine... Maybe he has issues...
2006-07-03 11:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just tell him. i know that isn't the easiest thing to do but you should. he will go for you, especially if you are good looking and you are friends. and for the second questions, yes guys will lead girls on even if they don't like them, it makes us feel better about ourselves
2006-07-03 11:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by Robert O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been with many girls and girls luv being with me, yess i have played the field but never have i broke a girls heart or led anyone on for my gain
2006-07-03 11:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by ho2asme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are answering your own question.
all women do this,
they know the guy is wrong but they still go there.
most guys are dogs so be careful
2006-07-03 11:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by satanmonsterlord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt lead girls on.. i have had it done to me, and it is awful,
play it cool... let him come to you.. maybe he is generally busy,,,,... if it dont work out,,, plenty of fish in the sea...
2006-07-04 04:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by paulrb8 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋