im a gothic and no girl's like me cuz what i am i dont no what to do im hated by every one im thing about killing my self
2006-07-03 04:19:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Boxing
Have you tried finding Gothic girls?
Or.... not be Gothic for a change and see if they notice you then?
2006-07-03 04:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Joey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are no Goth girls in your school or neighborhood, maybe lighten up your look/style a bit. I realize this would not be being true to who you are, but being the one different person is not a recipe for social success. As a former punk, I also found that it was kinda hard to keep up with all the heavy dark clothes over the summer-too hot!
Summer, when you are away from school for a few months, really is the perfect time to make a few changes, most people change a bit and grow a bit over the summer. You could also spend some time this summer seeking out people with similar interests. Go to different places than you usually go, perhaps you will meet a wider range of people. There is also the probability that some other people will go a bit more Goth over the summer.
Whatever you do, don't consider suicide. While you may not have been socially successful up to now, I can guarantee you that that will change. As you get out into the wide world, you will find all different kinds of people, and will discover that while being different while you are young can be a drag, it's pretty cool when you are an adult. You have too much to offer, don't let the ignorance of others get you down. They're just closed minded, and not worth it.
2006-07-03 04:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bartmooby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a gothic girl
2006-07-03 04:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by karlai a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill yourself drama queen, you need to understand that when you're in High School most attraction has to do with image thus you are really left with a choice.
1.) Be who you are, you will have a harder time picking up a chick or 2.) Adapt who you are into someone new and you'll have better luck finding someone.
Hope it helps!
2006-07-03 04:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by collegedebt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a skater girl soooo I can help you, just be your self, you don't have to over do it if you are just looking for a girl at school look further like go to a skatepark I'm sure you will find someone good luck
2006-07-03 04:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by GBH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying so hard. enjoy the thrill ride life has planned for you. it is not supposed to be easy because the things that come too easy are taken for granted.
most importantly, learn to like yourself! the more you respect and enjoy WHO YOU ARE the more confidence you display to others, and the more you'll attract them to you.
2006-07-03 04:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by John B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u kill urself, you will never know if you would have found the one. She is out there. Dont change for anyone. Be urself. You will find someone who genuinly cares for u
2006-07-03 04:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♥NICOLE♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude dont do that i tried it many times mostly cause im a goth lol you get used to it i have i dont have any friends either. you know what email me blkdrgngrl2@yahoo.com
2006-07-03 04:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Aroura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like guys that dress gothic but i don't like the religon at all
2006-07-03 04:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a goth girl.
2006-07-03 04:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by erin7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋