ok i know what im doing i just have never gone all the way is 20 to old to be a virgin
2006-07-03 04:15:51 · 79 answers · asked by armorefelix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not to me
2006-07-03 04:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by grantlilmama 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it is great to be a virgin at 20. You must not pressure yourself. You must relax about it and do it when you ready. By asking this question here it is very obvious that you are not ready and this is absolutely great that you asking!!
You have all your life ahead of you to be sexually active in fact everyone says that sex after 30 is the best, and why rush it if you can do it till you die, till 80??? (ok, ok.. it does sound strange, but real). Maybe because the maturity is there and it is not such a forbidden fruit and people can just relax more.
The best time to do it is when you are married, as there is many responsibilities attached to having sex and I can see you are very careful about it so congratulations are in order.
Especially now, today, so many young people have AIDS and other sicknesses, so it is scary as well, as the sex thing is so free, in fact it is becoming as late 60's and ealy 70's once again (hippi time).
Treasure your viginity, as once you do it, you cant turn back so it is better to do it with somone very special when you married, in case you concieve a child.. it will be then a blessing.
Best of luck
2006-07-03 04:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Desert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not too old! I was 19 before I lost my virginity and I am glad that I waited! Girls (and guys for that matter) need to realize that their virginity is something sacred that really should only be given to one person who means alot the them. I am glad the man I gave it to is still with me today and I would not be proud of myself if there was some guy goin around sayin I popped Misty's cherry. Bragging is not a complement! Good for you! You will make the right decision when it is time!
2006-07-03 04:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by mistyblue7404 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are never too old to be a virgin. sex is not a right of passage that has to be done at any specific time in life. You're young and you may not see it now, but as you get older, you will find that virginity is something that is respected by thiose mature enough to understand its signifiance. Don't give it away because you think you have to.
2006-07-03 04:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by rahkokwee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. In fact, you're a diamond in the rough now a days. Keep your virginity for as long as YOU wish. No one elses' opinion matters when it comes to this.
You are pure and it will take a special moment in your life to lose this. Don't rush into anything.
You're smart waiting. Try really hard to hang on until you're married. You'll be happy you did.
2006-07-03 04:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Your virginity is a very special things. If I could do it all over again I would have waited. Don't give up something so special because other people might say that it is time. Good Luck on your situation.
2006-07-03 04:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not....
i've known a few older virgins, and they were fine people. the one i knew was tired of the stigma and ended up having sex just to say she did....she ended up hurt.
don't make that mistake....i would never say wait until marriage, as that would be hypocritical of me, but what i do think is an absolute must is that you truly love the person you're with the first time. no matter how old you are when it happens, its going to be a memory you keep for the rest of your life, make it a good one.
2006-07-03 04:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by ladylawyer26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..... it's better being a 20 year old virgin then a 16 year old parent.
2006-07-03 04:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. In fact, I think it's admirable. 14 is too young to be having sex... there is nothing wrong with waiting for the right person before giving yourself to anyone. And in the long run, you will be much happier when you know you shared the experience with someone really special.
2006-07-03 04:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not. Here is the story of my son...please pay attention too. He was a virgin 20 years old in college on a schlorship. His friends were teasing him and telling him its time to have sex. He met a girl and the first time they had sex she got pregnant. Now he has a 3 1/2 year old daughter and a 2 1/2 year old son. Their divorce papers will be finalized in a week. We (his parents) have the children. He joined the Navy to provide for them. She moved to another town leaving her children to pursue her own interest. If and when you do decided to have sex please, please, please go to your doctor for birthcontrol before you have sex. Remember it only takes that one time to become pregnant. I adore the children believe me, but its just a hard road to travel for everyone involved.
2006-07-03 04:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin until the age 23 so no i dont think so
2006-07-03 04:18:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋