2006-07-03 04:04:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Not if you don't let it.
Once you have kids it does become harder, and you can't be as spontanious.
But it is vital to a marriage to keep that special, loving, sexual bond alive.
My husband and I have nights out alone, the kids spend the night with their grandparents sometimes, or even the day. Anytime where we can be alone and enjoy each others company and have adult fun is well worth it. And we have out alone time quite frequently.
2006-07-03 04:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm, this is definetly a lot less conventional. We were a three or 4 cases a week couple now we are all the way down to once per chance two times if we are fortunate. notwithstanding the sex we do have IS of the earth shattering type. i imagine i'd truly have high quality vs. volume any day! The nights that our son is going to grandma's are reserved for the wild and loopy!
2016-11-30 05:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. My sex life gets better with each passing year. I have 2 kids and been married 10 years.
2006-07-03 04:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't "ruin" it--but it may interrupt it here and there (while the kids are young), not enough to be a big deal. Sex gets better as you get older anyway.
2006-07-03 04:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by babyslaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely makes your sex life more difficult. It has so many bad effects.
For example:
1. It is detrimental to women's physical appearence...stretch marks, extra weight etc...
2. Additonal stress and financial responsibility. Stress dampens sex drive typically.
3. Time: you are so exhausted, and tired by the time you go to bed, it is hard to have the energy to have sex
There are other factors....
To answer your question in one word...YES!
2006-07-03 04:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily RUIN, but it does change it.
You may have to be more creative and open to doing things different from what you are used to.
It's still worth it though, at least for me.
2006-07-03 04:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by momma265 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fruit of family tree is kids
2006-07-03 04:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by dewman_byju 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it's a huge drag!! gets better as they get older but that's a long time to wait!!!
mom of a 3 and 1 year old
2006-07-03 04:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You do have to be more creative in finding time to be alone with your spouse. As time goes by you'll find that the sexual experience actually gets better, more satisfying!
2006-07-03 18:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by orchid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our daughter is adopted & it has slowed down. We've been married 7 1/2yrs.
2006-07-03 10:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Phil P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋