to rough and not enough?

Question

my girlfriend is to rough in bed, she scratches and bites, i mean im a bitter but not hard enough to make u bleed, but when we r done i look like i was beaten up, and she litterally falles asleep on me, no stamina in bed, should i say something to her or let it go

Answer 1

Definitely say something to her. or next time tie her hands up lol. she might like it and get rougher. just say something to her like-your to rough calm it down a bit.

Answer 2

Sounds like you are screwing a very worn out vampire. Biting and nibbling is awesome, but you shouldn't have to look like you've been in a dog fight... I DO have friends that are very rough and he usually looks pretty beat up after sex, but he LIKES it like that, so it's ok. If it's not enjoyable for you, just tell her to stop. And the falling asleep thing... I don't know about that. Are you having sex really late at night and she has to get up for work early? Are you smoking or drinking beforehand and she just passes out before you get to finish everything? Most people prefer to be awake during sex... but maybe if she stops going to town with her teeth and fingernails, she'll have more energy to just enjoy the romp. Talk to her.

Answer 3

I really think u should say something because maybe she thinks u like it. Sex is about pleasing the other person so if u don't tell her what u like n what u don't like then she is going to do things she thinks u like n maybe her last boyfriend liked it rough. So definitely speak up, n if she doesn't change then she is selfish n why would u want to be with someone who doesn't care about ur wants n needs.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Why haven't you said something yet? You can have sex with her but not talk to her? That's a bit backwards. She cannot know if her behavior is unpleasant to you unless you tell her, and vice versa.

Communicate, communicate, communicate...one of the biggest issues people in relationships have is lack of this...without it, you're missing a huge chunk of your relationship's foundation...and nothing very solid can be built, if it doesn't have a sturdy foundation.

Answer 5

Sounds like she is the man, and you are just a little p u s s y b i t c h. Maybe you should let a real man have her.

Answer 6

what r u nuts? u are a very lucky man, to have a woman like that , and if she if a screamer to boot , , u better hold to that one, ,, and stop being sooo senstive, u dont alwsy have to makelove, a good romp is just as good, and who says she has to be awake for it ,

Answer 7

darn - I'd say let HER go!! no way would I put up with being beaten up or bitten like that & you shouldn't have to, either. Find somebody more your speed -

Answer 8

Sounds like she's marking her territory
She assumes you like it like that, she's going off what all her previous lovers enjoyed ....... she needs to be reprogrammed.
You need to let her know ......most men don't like to talk during sex ...just say ouch not so rough !!! or mmmm yea like that , ...,; that's it YYEEAA !!!

Answer 9

I had the same problem, but then dumped the Rottweiler for a regular woman....Good luck with your dilemma.

Answer 10

i will on no account be your beast of burden; My lower back is huge besides the fact that that's a hurting; All i am going with is so which you would be able to make like to me; i will on no account be your beast of burden; i've got walked for miles my ft are hurting; All i am going with is so which you would be able to make like to me it fairly is from considered one of my favourite Stones albums--some females!!