2006-07-03 03:42:42 · 8 answers · asked by bonnie3bd 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not be quick to label yourself as such. For one thing, you may still be young enough that it is a phase, particularly if you did not notice any such attraction when you were a little kid (as in, 5- or 6-ish or even earlier). If it persists beyond adolescence, then that might be an indicator that it is a more permanent phenomenon.
But even if it turns out to be a more permanent phenomenon, I would still view it as your having more choice than the majority of people as to who you find attractive. So then you will make your decisions based on other criteria, such as your moral or spiritual views.
If you subscribe, for example, to a Biblical view(1), you will consider that marriage consists of one man plus one woman for life: leaving father and mother, making a permanent commitment, and then becoming one flesh(2), and that sexual activity is reserved for that context(3).
So let me encourage you to give careful thought to the criteria you will use to make decisions about what you will do with your body, and refrain from labeling yourself. You are more than just what gender you find attractive.
May God bless you and keep you
2006-07-03 04:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might. Are you also attracted to guys? In time, when you feel it's right for you, take the steps to see if you have a preference or not. It may just be curiosity, and you'll find down the road that you're not that into women...or you may find they appeal to you a great deal.
Time will tell.
2006-07-03 03:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are also attracted to guys, then yes. If you are ONLY attracted to girls then you are probably a lesbian.
In either case, please don't worry, girl-girl love is beautiful!
2006-07-03 03:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could mean your just curious. now if you actually perform some sexual thing with them then yes i would say you are. I see some girls that are beautiful but never would i touch one.
2006-07-03 03:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely.
2006-07-03 03:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, no prob
2006-07-03 03:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but it's ok.
2006-07-03 03:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by green_eyed_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope so!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-03 03:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by long_schlong22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋