2006-07-03 03:40:02 · 21 answers · asked by Tiff 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sounds like the father didn't get his sperm count checked after the surgery. It could be he had a bad or cheap procedure and is paying for it now.
I had this happen to me, and it totally sucked. We had been together 3 years. He said I must have cheated on him, then finally got tested, guss what? He was the daddy...I ended up miscarrying, I wonder sometimes if it was because the sperm were damaged or just a fluke.
2006-07-03 03:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by barefeet561 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three possibilities.
1. He's not the father.
2. He really didn't have a vasectomy.
3. The tubes grew back together. Believe it or not this is possible. When they do a vasectomy, most of the time, they ask if you think you may want to reverse the procedure. If you say "yes" they leave the tubes long enough to be reattached. If you say "No" they will cut out more of the tubes insuring you will remain sterile. If they leave the tubes long there have been cases where they heal themselves.
See the attachment. Around the third paragraph.
2006-07-03 10:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Gregory B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible because your living it. Vasectomy could have been reversed by your husband, also there is a slight possiblity your husband did not have a perfect vasectomy. Get him to have a spermatoscopy that will give you the answer.
There is a remote (very remote) possibility also that you got pregnant in a swimming pool or in another public place.
2006-07-03 10:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Guillermo S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vasectomies can be messed up, or the ends of the tubes can grow together if they weren't cauterized. I know of 2 guys who fathered kids after having vasectomies.
2006-07-03 10:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vasectomy does not always take. There is always a chance of getting pregnant still especially if he was not checked to be sure the sperm was gone.
He may not believe you that you are pregnant with his child. DNA testing may be in the works.
2006-07-03 10:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by sheristeele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that it could happen. Be prepared for him to ask for a DNA test, try not to be offended because he's counting on the vasectomy to have worked. Good luck.
2006-07-03 10:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There have been some cases where the proceedure reverses by itself. I have a friend of mine that this happenned to. This is also possible with women to. A male who has had this proceedure dhould be checked out every 5 to 7 years to ensure that it has not reversed itself
2006-07-03 10:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vasectomy's can reverse themselves I'm not sure how but we (husband and I) know a couple that happened to but we also know a couple that the woman had her tubes tied and ended up pregnant.
2006-07-03 10:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason u ended up pregnant is that when he had the vasectomy they cut his ductus deferens but it is not unheard of for it to grow back together.. so it must have grown back together
2006-07-03 10:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, this is kinda common. A friend of mine had two children after her husband had a vasectomy. Reassure him that it is his child. If he loves you, he'll believe you. If he doesn't, tell him you can have a paternity test.
2006-07-03 12:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋