2006-07-03 03:37:54 · 10 answers · asked by howcanibethiskind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart... STALKING is no laughing matter. I had a stalker once and it got really bad.... I would call my girlfriends to meet me at home, so I wouldn't have to get out of the car and go inside by myself...........got to the point I had someone walk me to my car. I would go outside to get in my car and he would be in my fukkin car.. just crouched up in the backseat. Use to scare the shyt out of me... Then another time, I was taking in groceries.. you know you take some in, then kinda kick the door closed a little.. when I turned around and he was standing there with a fukking revoler pointed in my face... yelling.. "do you think a EPO or restraining order is going to stop me.. I'm here aren't I."
MY LIFE FLASHED BEFORE MY EYES.... I thought I would never see my children again! ..... Restraining orders don't work... all they are are a piece of paper that SAYS he cannot come around you! What is to stop him?> What is to keep him away? All that piece of paper does for you is give you alittle lee-way.. if you blow his fukkin head off.. .you had an order telling him to stay away.. right?
But in anycase...I say becareful, be aware of your surroundings.. get some mace, a baseball bat... a switch blade... you better cut his azz girl!
2006-07-03 03:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex stalked me for 6 years. I would see him at the mall, gas stations, bank, etc. I just kept ignoring him and had video surveillance installed at my home. One day I was mowing my yard and he pulled up in front of my house and I screamed at him loud that he was being videotaped and I would take it to the police if he didn't stop. I haven't seen him around in about 7 years. Every time you see him around you, write it down with the date and time. After awhile you can take it to the police and let them know. You can get a restaining order, but they dont' do much good.
2006-07-03 10:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be still lost in love with you.
Both seemed to have miscommunication and communication failures.
Try and trace back where did both go wrong maybe that can help you solve the problems.
Instead of him standing in the rain.
Find out what he want and express what you want out from him.
Have a heart to heart talk.
Be a nice little girl then you will have the dirty old man be a nice little boy for you too.
Recall how you first met him.
2006-07-03 10:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's called a restraining order...
2006-07-03 10:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT SUXXXX???? If you ever see him tell him to screw off or you'll call the cops. Sounds good to me.
2006-07-03 10:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops, girl! You don't want to wind up dead!
2006-07-03 10:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him.
2006-07-03 10:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell 'em to stop
2006-07-03 10:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is one sick dude
2006-07-03 10:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't make sence but i think it's over..........3 years?................ya you're so done.
2006-07-03 10:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by green_eyed_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋