Me and my boyfriend been going out for about a year and a half now I really like him but when it comes down to getting it on he's to romantic for me now don't get me wrong I love it but not all the time. Sometimes I just want to go at it like animals you know? I hate when he wants everything to be perfect like if we are doing it and my head starts to hang off the bed he wants to take it out so I can move back because he says I look uncomfortable but I'm thinking who gives a sh@# about me head just keep going...lol ( I know how to fix myself). Now I'm starting to wonder maybe we are not meant for eachother what do u think I should do?
2006-07-03 03:36:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, just tell him next time not to worry about you that you can control your position but to keep the momentum going. It's really cute how he takes your comfort into consideration.
2006-07-03 03:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOOOHHHH, no..... Sounds like you have a hopless romantic. Woman you need to jump on him and tell him that romatic sex is good, but he needs to start getting a bit rougher. I bet you talking about the heat of the moment, someone may walk in, tear off the clothes and get er' done!! huh? Put him in that type of moment, tell him you want to F U C K, make it apparent you want it rough. If he starts to talk romantic, kiss him, make him shut up. If he tries to take his clothes of slow, RIP EM off. It'll work. Just break him. TEACH HIM.
2006-07-03 03:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it DUH! Just tell him that things the same way all the time get boring things lose luster and that doing things different or taking a different approach and experimenting with different things keeps it fun and exciting. He might think that being soft sweet and gentle is the way all girls want to be treated and its a way for him to show you that he loves and respects you. However sometimes you have to get mad get angry and go eat some p***y.
2006-07-03 03:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by shadow_lion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowhere in your post did you indicate that you've discussed this with him. How's he supposed to know what you want, if you don't tell him? How's he supposed to know you're bored with the standard, if you act like it's groovy?
Communicate, communicate, communicate...if you can't do that, then an important part of your relationship foundation is missing...it's likely if you tell him what you want, and that if something is wrong (like the head bumping) you'll let him know...he may be treating you in a way that he thinks women in general want to be treated...he may find it quite arousing to learn that occsionally you'd like it to be 'wild and wooly'.
2006-07-03 03:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your love based on real love or lust?..if the answer is lust than u can always search for an alternative...otherwise just communicate with him and i am sure the guy will respond
2006-07-03 03:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by VBguru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play the field a bit , see what else is out there, if the sex is not right , dont bother continuing with the relationship,
2006-07-03 03:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when that happens, too. maybe I'm not 'freaky' enough, either...lol
2006-07-03 03:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't respond the way you need him to, throw him back like an undersized fish
2006-07-03 03:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he cares a lot about you.
2006-07-03 03:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol oh my! ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
maybe talk to him maybe you can bring out his inner freak!
2006-07-03 03:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋