I'm 21, I have been with my man for almost 4 years now, and he brought up in conversation that I have never seduced him or been the one to initaite anything. He's right but I think that is because I dont feel sexy. What can I do to get over this problem.
2006-07-03 03:36:41 · 7 answers · asked by antztaylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if your man has been with you for four years don't worry about it. But hey try dancing for him, stripe make it romantic with some candles and good music. What the hell you got to keep him entertained sometimes. But sexiness and the art of seduction I believe is innate, either your born with it or not and if your not why worry if hes been with you so long and you haven't been that way. He obviously likes something!!! But ya' dance for him or do something different and sexy, wear lingerie!
2006-07-03 03:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a garter belt and some nice sheer stockings. I have never met a man who could resist them, especially if you wear them under some of your regular clothes and he doesn't expect it.
I discovered it a long time ago when I got a job requiring that the women wear hosiery. I really dislike pantyhose so started wearing stockings. I knew I always had decent legs, but all of the sudden they seemed to be irresistible to the guys. I.m 26 now, and for the past five years its been the same. Every time a guy gets a glimpse of my stocking tops they go a little insane. Try it!
2006-07-05 19:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at this site and get some ideas. As a hint, guys seem to really like stockings and a garter belt. If you are afraid to get one of the sexy little costumes they have, just get a garter belt and some nice sheer stockings and wear them with a skirt yr dress you may have. If you don't have that, I have even worn them with jeans and heels. they always seem to make a man stop dead in his tracks, and go a little insane. Just remember to put your panties over the top of the garter belt and stockings, so you don't get all tangled up.
2006-07-06 15:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the sexiest thing a girl can do to seduce me is wear a skirt with no underwear. Let him catch a glimpse of the fact that you're ready for easy access and I'm sure he'll be ready to go.
2006-07-03 10:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by s v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you need to learn is how to wear a garter belt and stockings. there is nothing so sexy on a woman, and they transform you into a sexy vixen. something about a woman changes when they are wearing them, they become so sexy in the way they move and act, that they become irresistible.
2006-07-10 09:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Bobby T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a Pole Dancing or Stripper course and then go to Victoria's Secret and buy outfits that you normally never would think of wearing. Good Luck.
2006-07-03 10:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this site...
www.sexuality.org
They have some great suggestions and information on everything you need to know. Try clicking on erotic massage.
2006-07-03 10:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋