My partner and I are having too much sex! Maybe, it's only me, but fpr a day, we could have sex for at least four times. I don't think this is normal. He himself confesses to me that this is his first time in his life that he is having so much sex. Sometimes we try to break, but it doesn't work.
We've only being going out for a month. I do want this relationship to last. I don't want it to be based on sex only. Yes we do talk share Ideas, and discuss other thing, but the sex is toomuch I think. I have decided that I will not see him or talk to him for a week, just to calm things down. I tried discussing this with him yesterday, but he had that disappointed look in his face. I feel as if I am falling out of love with him when he looked at me like that. But I am not! Not seeing him for a week, means I am making the right decision? Please Help!
2006-07-03 03:36:29 · 18 answers · asked by Mamamia 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to let you know this man adores me! I am scared that everything will die when the sex ends!
2006-07-03 03:45:11 · update #1
No you've nothing to worry about. It sounds like you are having a great time, enjoy! You will probably start to have less sex when you have been seeing each other a bit longer and you have to fit your relationship around everything else that you have to do.
Right now, enjoy expressing your love for each other. It's very healthy. Lucky you.
2006-07-03 04:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a big danger that a relationship can become based entirely on sex, which is fine if you both are looking for a f/buddy and nothing else. If you see him for more than just a sex partner, you should think about cooling it and going out for a short while just getting to know each other. If he then breaks it off, he's only interested in one thing! If on the other hand you like him but not *that* much, but enjoy the sex, go with it.... I know a couple of friends who have had busy sex lives who are now going celibate for a few months because they felt they had exactly the same problem....
2006-07-03 10:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Richard C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing more relaxed things with him like going for a long walk (without having sex) and do the sex part later it mite help calm things down as in not doing it all the time try doing other stuff together go out cinema or dinner n things like that and leave the sex part untill later on!!
Maybe the 2 of u just have a really high sex drive if so try asking your doc for some info!!!
Take care
2006-07-03 10:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with mona that as life passes away the tendency of sex becomes lower and lower. I have a suggestions for you, if i am not wrong through your question i analyzed one thing that both of you sex when u don't need it. Am i right? And secoundly you said he adores you & what about you. A relationship should be strong from both sides even if one partner get sexual pleasures comparatively to other its not wise. I think even in all intercourses both fo you involved in are one sided (from you hubby end) and he don't care if you are ejeculating, having sexual pleasures? Right. Tyr make things done through discussion and tell him that your pleasure is more importent then him. ASsk him to do sex when i was felt and not like routines or same as when we get us in the morning and have breakfast. It should be unique and should be pleasurable more for women then to man.
2006-07-03 10:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by Zaffarullah R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in a new relationship so the sex iz goin 2 be high! when i first got wiv my fella we grabbed evry opportunity now its calmed down a lot we hav been 2getha 10 months and live 2getha now so the need iznt as gr8! it is really gud that he adores u so dnt go throwin it away coz not many lads r like that! things will settle down soon trust me, try doin sumthing else 2getha like goin bowling or to the cinemas 2 try n take his mind off of sex
2006-07-05 06:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by charlotte b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're enjoying it have fun. Too much sex is not a problem that is possible. As your relationship wears on it will decrease just have fun in the mean time.
2006-07-03 10:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just the initial lust coming out (so to speak)... Your sexlife will calm down a little, but sounds like you are going for the world record - good for you...
Just go with the flow and enjoy it...
2006-07-03 10:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that meet him. make sure that u both wanna have a future together or not. if u wanna be then tell him that this would make u both face complications in the future n this isnt good coz due to this ur future is gonna ruin so have se in regular periods it vll make u both realize each others importance
2006-07-03 10:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by dj_andy280105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since uve only been with him 1 month then its obvious ur going through the 'hunnymoon' period where u cant get enough of each other.enjoy it now cos sex decreases the further u go in a relationship
2006-07-03 10:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by monamena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been going out a month and you are talking about falling out of love!!!!!!!!! you have no idea what it is yet. Enjoy the sex and go from there....
2006-07-03 10:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by worm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋