2006-07-03 03:35:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well marriage in Islam is very simple and easy. It should not cost much. Find a bride who is good in character, mind and behavior. The one who fears Allah the most. Islam is a religion of moderation and hence one must not spend too much. Till yu can not find any suitable wife, it is better for you to fast often. And of course Islam asks both man and woman to lower their gaze and do not indulge in things which bring you close to adultry. There is no mention of masturabtion in Quran and I doubt if there are authentic Ahadiths on this issue. In such things it is better to not to ask too many questions as Quran has warned us not to act like Jews who asked too many unnecssary questions from Moosa (Moses) (PBUH). Allah has not forgotten any thing. If something is kept clsoe let it be close. By the way Islam is diagonally opposed to terrorism and destruction. All the terrorism is carried out by the enemies of Islam and they attribute to Islam so that good people can be kept awya from this true religion of the God which began with Adam and Eve and Muhammad (PBUH) happened to the fianl messenger and the Quran the last and the fianl edition of all divine books so it is well protected letter by letter, word by word in its original language for last 1400 years and still it is today as fresh as on day one and with every new invetnion Quran is even more understandable. When Muslim held this book firmly they founded all modern scienes. Before Muslims there were no Universities, no hospitals etc. and the watch you are wearing today had been invented 1000 years back by Ahmad Shakir in the time of Khalifa Mamoon Rashid who gifted several of them to Christian rulers and some of which can be seen in London Museum.
2006-07-03 04:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by pathowiz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In Islam, Muslim men and woman can date. It is a concept called the Muta. It was practiced during Prophet Muhammad's (SAW) time and is now also mostly among the Shia. A companion of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) named Umar ibn Khattab who is also the 2nd caliph for the Sunnis banned it as it eventually became a man dominated religion oppressing women. It is worthy to note that it was also practiced during the Sunni's 1st caliph Abu Bakr's time who also practiced it. In Islam we claim to follow the Holy Qur'an and Hadith (the Prophet's (SAW) actions and sayings) but some decide to follow their caliph's words above the Prophet's (SAW) even though it is also in the Holy Qur'an. The Holy Qur'an also says that no one can change God's law, not even Prophet Muhammad (SAW) so who is a caliph? The reason they give is that it is not needed any more, as in those days there were a lot of battles and Muslim's needed to procreate. In Islam this new rule is called a Bida, or addition to the religion. The rules are that the man must be a Muslim and the woman can be a Jew, Christian, or Muslim. If she is a Muslim, she can not be a virgin, if she is, then the consent of her guardian must be given. A Muslim man must give a dowry or any material gift and state a term for the Muta (temporary marraige) for example 3 months. They will be husband and wife for those 3 months but no other rules of inheritance or such applies. There are a lot of arguments against it that are ungrounded. For example some Sunni brothers claim that this is similar to prostitution. If it was, would the Prophet (SAW) ever practice it or your 1st caliph? Can you not have a regular marraige and divorce within 3 months? Which is itself horrible b/c the woman has hopes of a long life of marraige but with mutah, both parties are aware of the eventual outcome which is separation although in most cases, it leads to permanent marraige. More information can be found @ www.al-islam.org.
2006-07-03 10:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ismael B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are a Muslim, you better not get caught writing questions like this. If you aren't then mind your own Fu*king business. Some people have a higher respect for their God than playing with their pecker. Obviously you have never loved something enough to sacrifice your own personal self gratification.
2006-07-03 10:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try fasting and don't look at womans if it'n a necessary, until Allah make you found your wife or if you need money you can get a loan without interest if you can and try to find a one.
one more thing ask Allah with faith that you will get his help from your heart.
2006-07-03 10:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by loyal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By fasting, but you may say again I can't, then you should be so weak to sin.
2006-07-03 10:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move into the mosque
2006-07-03 10:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just visit...
http://www.thereligionofpeace.com
2006-07-03 10:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of sin? being single and non sexual is not a sin. also don't "broadcast" any sins you think you made.
2006-07-03 12:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exercise a little will.
2006-07-03 10:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that crazy religion and stop thinking by yourself what is right and what is wrong
2006-07-03 10:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by drchristian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋