we just broke up and she just wants to be friends and i love her really bad. so how do i get her back?she told me she just wants to be friends over the summer so she can just have fun and not worry about me and i really want her so please tell me how i can get her BACK!!thankz ooo and i`m 14 years old if that helps?
2006-07-03 03:08:49 · 27 answers · asked by lil`pimp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it dude! You can't win them all and there's plenty more girls out there. Let her go and move on.
2006-07-03 03:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see you really have strong feelings for this girl. My question to you is why did you and her breakup in the first place? Did you both agree on it or was it both of your idea? If she broke up with you it's probably going to be hard to get her back, but give it a try. Go to her and tell her your feelings. Be honest and really mean it from the heart so that she knows your being real about this. It sounds like she wants to just do her own thing at this point because it's the summer, but you have to rememember she is a young girl too, you both are very young, so you have to be understanding of her feelings when she wants to just have fun because she is after all a young girl and she should be having good time the same as you too. Talk to her and see what happens that is the best way to know whether or not she will give things another try. If she says no again I wouldn't press the issue anymore. If she wants to just be friends then just be friends and that will also show her you respect her wishes and trust me she won't forget you. Hope things work out for you!!!
2006-07-03 10:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur 14 relax. I doubt ur gonna find ms right at this age. If she's set in her way u wont. But being there for her as a friend will help. If its just the summer break then u might get her back. A lot depends on her and a lot depends on how much she feels for u. U can only do so much. Dont be over bearing but dont be distant. Call once or twice a day not 4 or 5. gifts r ok if its her bday or a gift giving occasion, otherwise i'd hold off on that. hope this helps.
2006-07-03 10:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by ksblue594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her so bad why did you broke up with her???I guess she gave up on you totally and she thinks that you're lying about your feelings to her.
I'm a girl and I'm 14 and that's just the same think that I would think .
Just give her some space.But DON'T GIVE UP!!!!! Try to be cool and nice but don't tell her that you like her or anything just give her some time.Look after her but don't make it so obvious because many girls hate to be controlled.
give her some time an then invite her AND some of your friends over your house go to the movies or somewhere else.That way she'll be alot closer to you.Just let her know that you're always there for her.And if she won't understand it that's her problem move on.
2006-07-03 10:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor boy,
You are so young. Later you will look back on this and wonder how you could have allowed youself to feel this way about a girl who definitely sounds like a hoe, sorry if that offends you.
Forget her, she sounds really nasty. Go out with your friends. Get another girlfriend. Fool around with girls at parties. Masturbate a lot! Whatever, anything that doesn't involve her, because she doesn't deserve you.
Good luck sweety.
2006-07-03 10:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puppy love, how sweet. Well, I would grant her wish and leave her alone. Let her miss you a little bit and see that she had the best out there. Go out and enjoy yourself and meet some new people as well. Once she realizes her mistakes, she should come back around. I know when my man is mia every once in a while, I miss him more. If she doesn't come around, at least you met some new friends.
2006-07-03 10:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by Madam SupaStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I assume you'll be seeing her at school?
Be friends, try going out with another girl or two. I was in the same boat as you, and I just decided to wait it out and see what happened. A week later I was with someone knew who I honestly hadn't considered going out with, and we're still together. Life's funny that way.
Give her some time, let her go out with a few other guys too. After a while, she'll (hopefully) start to want to go out with you again.
Or you'll end up like me, making one mistake that led to the greatest thing in my life right now. Again, life can be funny like that.
2006-07-03 10:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by snake390 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her and respect her then you have to give her that space. Stay in touch over the summer and ask her to hang out once in a while. If it's meant to be then you both will find each other again. Good luck.
2006-07-03 10:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so i hve been through this situation. ok just be with her dont make her know that u cant stay without her then she wont respect ur feelings. just be with her n stay as u stay usual. then from the next day make her face some situations which u faced during ur relationship ex: watching movie which u saw together,like when u had some physical relation, such situations will make her realize the time u had together was special this would help u in ur patch up. just hangin there she is just urs only be with here
2006-07-03 10:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by dj_andy280105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. If she is just under 14 - the legal age where women can marry in this country is 18.
No need to worry - you will have to learn not to fret and obsess and be jalous anyway (this is I think a bit of a bad site of men).
Better learn it now than later.
2006-07-03 10:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never be friends with someone you love. You have to tell her the truth...like...listen I really like you and i don't think we can be just friends...try to stay away from her and let her know that you rather be alone because otherwise it would hurt....and do it...try to have fun and never let her see you suffering...it is hard...I've been in that situation but if you show no interest...maybe she'll be back and remember an old saying...if you love someone let her be free...is she comes back...she loves you...if she doesn't its not worth it...why care about someone who doesn't love you back
best of luck
2006-07-03 10:18:08 · answer #11 · answered by adrianita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋