we had sex the first day back and he hasn't called me but he seemed to be fine when we left each other. I call it sex because I wasn't ready to have done it again with him just yet but I wanted him to know that I was glad he came back. Now, I'm wondering if I screwed it up.
2006-07-03 03:00:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You call it sex? It either is sex, or it's not sex...
But yes, I think that having sex with him the first day back was not such a good idea. I don't know that you completely screwed things up, but maybe you should hold back with the sex for a while and try to stick to talking through everything.
2006-07-03 03:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever think that sex is the answer to make someone feel loved. He probably just wanted to see if you would give in or not. Is he just using you for this would be my question? Keep sex out of the relationship until you get to know each other.
2006-07-03 10:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a man to respect you and to want you......make him wait!! If he can just wait then you will see how much he really loves and appreciate you.. Let this be a lesson to you......if he dont call you back, then you were just the nearest screw. If he does call you back, still tell him how you feel. So that all of the goodies can be out on the table. This shall make you more of a woman.
2006-07-03 10:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just cam back, got what he wanted, and is gone again. Look for something a little deeper in a guy. Sex is important in a gy's mind, but not always the requirement for a relationship. Look for a guy who treats you right without expecting payment in return.
2006-07-03 10:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by bairland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, he has all the classic signs of an emotional unavailable man.. It's not you.. it's him with the problem.. You have the choice to put up with it. Men like that will yank you back and forth like a yo-yo. This stems from a deep rooted fear of intimacy and fear of abandonment. Men like that like to leave you before they get hurt.Usually emotionally unavailable men never change unless something drastic changes them. They have to work out their inner workings and paranoia. It has nothing to do with you.. the only thing that gets broken is your heart...
2006-07-03 10:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ACtually I think he just came for one thing ( sex ). You didnt do anything you just got to happy in the moment. There is more fish out in the sea.
2006-07-03 10:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idk if i would of had sex with him the first day, kinda seems wierd. Maybe he just wanted a booty call but hey i think next time u need to wait a few more days or dates.
2006-07-03 10:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Hrscrzy4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounded like he was looking for an easy time with someone he knows. You were looking to rekindle the love before.
Fool me once shame on me, fool me twice shame on you.
Forget about him, move on.
2006-07-03 10:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Blog Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him think it was a booty call so he will come back because it seems like he thinks you want to hook up more seriously
2006-07-03 10:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by jentn2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you screwed it up.
2006-07-03 10:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋