2006-07-03 01:58:43 · 30 answers · asked by lovableswann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how difficult is it to compromise?
obviously, the less flexible you are with your expectations the more difficult it will be.
2006-07-03 02:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats the problem, right there. it isnt difficult at all but we has humans make it that way. We are clouded by sugarcoating and unwilling to grasp the hidden emotional expression of our spirits. We are hung up on how the world views us. We ask for too much outer shell and usually end up with a big toothache of a relationship. Because we fail to look where we should look we can't never find the true happiness that only can be seen once you stop looking.
2006-07-03 02:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difficulty comes in while trying to keep the right person to spend the rest of your life with. Relationships is dealing with two or more people, which means, if you want your relationship to last, then you must be willing to meet your mate half way, all of the time, at least until the end of your life.
Be able to deal with the good, bad and ugly together. Accept one another as who they were when you met them, accept the fact that what you see is what you get, and what you got, you might as well stick with it, because this is what you wanted, and it is what you got.
2006-07-03 02:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by xzenea_z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY VERY VERY difficult, actually it could be easy if people didn't always take in looks instead of personality. There are people who are too darn picky. It's not always about looks. Anyway time and patience is a good thing to have. Especially when trying to find the ONE. Just try not to be too picky, accept guys for who they are. Plus getting yourself out there helps.
2006-07-03 02:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that it is difficult, but time might be the question. You may not find the right one right away, but each one you date along the way will help you learn something about yourself and you will know when you find your life-long love.
2006-07-03 02:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships will teach you about the kind of person who can be your partner in life.
Learn from the people you have been close to. What did you like about them? What did you not like?
Its not a bad idea to make your own 'shopping list' and see what you really desire.
You can be confident that you will find that person, remember someone out there is looking for you too :)
Peter
2006-07-03 02:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I searched the world, and found true love on Yahoo Match Maker!
I have had some very deep, very serious, very loving relationships, that ended due to illness (mental - them, not me!), but, at 54 found my Perfect match, (although none of the others were half-bad, jprior to their 'troubles'!).
I suspect it is that I have grown more loving, more forgiving, more accepting, that makes her more perfect!
Who knows? We'll talk about this in Heaven! See ya there, I hope! But, that is a LONG way off!
2006-07-03 02:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very difficult. After a person is hurt, they don't want that to happen again; but, unfortunately, you have to be willing to be hurt and be vulnerable to love someone. Take your chances if you really want to find "the one". Otherwisek, alot of good chances will pass you by.
2006-07-03 02:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as the right person. It is the way how you choose the person - you have to balance your heart with your mind. Besides, it is the way both of you will handle the relationship that makes it right.
2006-07-03 02:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no guarantee that one will find a person to spend the rest of their life with. It depends. And you must have patience, alot of patience. Do not settle for something less than what you would like out of a relationship.
I suggest you write a list (for yourself) of what things you willnot accept in a relationship (e.g., verbal abuse, physical abuse, drug abuse, etc.) and a list of things you find essential in a relationship (honesty, respect for self and you, etc.). Then do NOT waiver from this because you want to settle for something less for fear of being alone.
Good Luck to you. Patience is the key, and do not look. Enjoy life, be you and love will find you if it is meant to be.
2006-07-03 02:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Itz extremely hard...I thought i had found the ryte one...Everything were going great until the love falls apart...till now,i can't seem to find sum1 exactly like him..the one i knew i could spent my life with.
So,once again,it is hard my dear...
2006-07-03 02:03:29 · answer #11 · answered by MIzzMoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋