should a person be given a 2nd chance if the relatinship was still in its blossoming stage but ended?

Answer 1

depends on why it ended suddenly. if one person was unfaithful then trust needs to be built up and the past put behind for the relationship to work. if its worth working for then go for it. good luck.

Answer 2

Depends why it ended. It may be you are both more mature now. You both need to think about what you want from a relationship, what characteristics need to be present in a potential partner. Observe relationships around you, recall your own relationships, see what works.

If one or both of you are not ready to have a permanent relationship with anyone yet, it is better not to move in that direction until you are. See, once you hook up sexually, breakups are not supposed to happen. It creates a permanent change in your relationship and if you break up after that, it's like you leave a bit of yourself with your partner, and vice versa.

So that the thing to do is wait until you can really get independent from your parents in every way (emotionally, financially/materially, etc.), then make that permanent commitment together between the two of you, that you will only have each other for life, and then become one flesh. In that order(1).

And yes, if you are in a position to do that, and you see that you and the other person are now on the same page about what sort of relationship you want, what sort of person you want, then I'd say go for it.

May God bless and keep you

PS If you've already made mistakes in this area, humanly speaking it isn't possible to change this, BUT what is not possible for people is possible for God. He can fill up the empty spaces(2) and give you a clean slate(3).

He's already done everything you need for that to happen(4). So what you can now do is get with Him and discuss all the issues you and He have with each other, settle those(5), trust in what He's done(6), and move on with your life with new strength(7).

Answer 3

if a relationship didn't work the first time, then why would you think it would a second time?
I do not understand how some people can't seem to understand that when it is over it is over and you need to learn to let go and move on.
Relationships fail because no one can admit they were ever at fault, when the truth is both failed and nothing ever changes when you can't see your failures. how can you learn from your mistakes when you do not feel you made one.
when entering into a new relationship you should know all the things you could have changed about your last relationship and fix them before making a mistake.
second tried relationships usually end worse then the first attempt.

Answer 4

Give the person one chance and one chance only. Whether to forgive or not is a difficult choice. "Wisdom is defined as seeing something the second time and taking it seriously," she says. Give your partner the benefit of the doubt but never a second chance. As to whether a marriage can withstand the betrayal of trust, she says that around 50% of the couples she sees break up where one person has been cheating.

Answer 5

It all depends on the circumstances, if he played up with your girlfriend, then no, if its something trivia then yes everyone deserves a second chance life's too short, if this person makes you happy don't let something silly spoil it.

Answer 6

yes.... at times people tend to commit a mistake unknowingly. its fair enough to give another chance at least at the start of a relationship.

Answer 7

for me it would depend on why it ended.
But chances are if it ended in the beginning stage...then it isn't going to make it past that again.

Answer 8

yes always give a second chance but never give a third chance

Answer 9

i belive no , once it finsh so go a way and try to find out what was the case and remmber that that you will not do the same mistake . once love is finshed why you weast your time .

Answer 10

i think you should first get to know why the relationship ended before you put yourself into more heart break