what should i do?
2006-07-03 00:48:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends whether you are male or female. If you are female, get married first. Not just for the piece of paper. Once you hook up, breakups are not supposed to happen, so you both have to go into it with the intent of a permanent relationship and assume that breaking up is not an option.(1)
If you are male, the matter is more complicated in a way, because you can't really get married. Marriage is indeed one man plus one woman for life(2). So, if you find women attractive, find a woman instead and marry her. Not just for the piece of paper, etc.
If you are male and don't find women attractive, then learn to live a life where you love everyone equally, but lust after no one.
Obviously, the sex drive is very powerful, so for this to work, it has to tie into your deepest values, arise out of your relationship with God, etc.
Remember: lust is just a form of greed (short for idolatry), so the solution is to do the opposite: occupy yourself with worshipping God. Offer your body as a living sacrifice to Him(3). Glorify Him and give thanks to Him in all things(4). Settle any issues you and God might have between you(5), and trust in what He has already done for you(6) to give you a clean slate and a new start in life(7).
And when you've done that, you'll see why it's really worthwhile to live this life: speaking from experience, let me tell you there is nothing quite like knowing that you can love anyone, and yet not be driven mad by cravings for anyone. It is love, it is peace of mind, a clear conscience...
May God bless you and keep you
2006-07-03 01:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by songkaila 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't. You need a relationship in your heart and your head before you have a "man in your bed." If all you want is a guy between your legs, that's pretty easy and not something you have to ask a question about. Proposition any guy at a bar and you're home free. If you want a relationship, however, you need to work on yourself, first.
2006-07-03 07:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the man to join you in Bed
Easy Eh
2006-07-03 07:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by shady_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man in a bed is just for 2 things: sex or sleep.
If you want sleep a man is better in winter because human hot is the best one.
If you want sex, you can use for oral sex, for tactile sex or for penny sex :). The last one is just only for men, because women haven't penny.
2006-07-03 07:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by jokin20A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act sexy. But also since it is summer (here maybe not there) try to wear small clothes that show your skin. That will get them imagining you naked. Then they will want to get in your bed with you.
2006-07-03 07:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Catalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u want a man are boy cause a boy and so man dont have a gatorhead like the one i have
2006-07-03 07:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by dennis w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man is in d bed....at d night time....So u jus hav to imagine :-)
2006-07-03 07:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Bond007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't we all?
Go to bars, dance clubs, athletic clubs, gyms. Go where men congregate and talk to the them. Good luck.
2006-07-03 07:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call me adjust one bed and one room i'll see you soon there mail me ur address.
waiting???????
2006-07-03 08:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he has a good sized weapon, (to really give you a thrill)
2006-07-03 07:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋