I have been dating a guy for a month, he is a very sweet guy but I have lost interest in him. How can I finish it without hurting his feelings to much? I would rather talk to him in person but don't know what to say.
2006-07-03 00:01:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way is to do it face to face, it shows you have some respect for the other person, also be nice but be honest. Say how much you enjoyed spending time with them (if you did) but unfortunately you don't see the relationship going anywhere and its best you call it a day. Good luck.
2006-07-03 00:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Delle C. 4 · 20⤊ 7⤋
Tell him the truth. Lying will only make it worst. Rather make him feel as if you accept him for who he is but there are a few things he has to change to make him a better man. Rather the truth than find out later that you dumped him by lying to his face. Don't use the line "it me not you" because that is the worst dumping line to use. Believe me it happened to me and that was the most cowardly way to go.
2006-07-03 00:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Angelique M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing interest in a guy always has its reasons. Try to figure out what these reasons are and tell him that.
If you tell him you lost interest in him - that's hurtful. But, for instance, if you tell him that you felt you've lost yourself in this relationship, and you feel too dependent on him and this relationship - that's something he can understand. And that's not really hurtful.
Just tell him the truth.
2006-07-03 00:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by The Phantom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely talk to him in person. Be honest and truthful and deliver the bad news in the nicest way possible. Find a better way to state it than 'just losiing interest'. Be a little more specific because that reason makes you sound fickle and shallow.
2006-07-03 00:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you would possibly want to flow on & stay existence to the finished and not using a second's concept for this episode. If, huge IF, she approaches you i am going to grant you with a line... purely ask "who're you, do i comprehend you?". She'll likely (like a donkey after a carrot) pass for that - then you could purely plead a moderate information "oh yeah, I keep in recommendations - won't be able to end, too a lot to do!" & flow on!
2016-11-30 04:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by walley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as everyone else seems to have said there is no nice way to be dumped.
you could try what the one answerer said and suggest you want to split he may foece the issue and try and resolve the situation by aking you whats wrong.
if you realy want to dump him then be 100% honest tell him exactly how you feel and why you believe you have to go your seperate ways.
you could try and say "i think we should see other people", he should get the idea.
another way to break up is to say your seeing someone else.
the choice has to be yours. whatever you do if he loves you he will be heartbroken there is no real way to prevent that from happening.
2006-07-03 00:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO nice way of dumping another person. It's going to hurt him .Just tell him in a direct manner how you feel,
2006-07-03 00:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, just be truthful to him...there is no reason why you can't stay friends... but remember that you were friends first...and friendship should be the remaining thing if a relationship fails if you treat each other with dignity and respect
2006-07-03 00:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a nice way of dumping someone?
if it was me i would say that he is a really nice guy but i dont think that we suit each other or that i've decided that im not ready for a relationship.
2006-07-03 00:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really iis sweet then unfortunately he's gona be hurt however you do it,sorry but there is not alot you can do but be honest and open with him like you have us lot ,GOOD LUCK
2006-07-03 00:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not so into him anymore and are going to be entering a new phase and you need some alone time
2006-07-03 00:04:39 · answer #11 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋