2006-07-02 23:35:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've seen some answers regarding my suposed shyness. It' s not the case. I admit that I'm a little bit shy. The thing with shy guys, if a girl wants to tell if he likes her or not is to watch his actions. If he looks a lot at her, the easive glimpse, for sure he likes her. I won't make the first step, to show her that I like her. But she would definitley observe that I'm watching her like all the time cause I like her. OK?
2006-07-02 23:49:16 · update #1
I accept my shyness, and don't wanna turn into a party freak. I admire popular guys in my highschool, cause girls like them, but the baseline: popular guys are shallow, they only wanna have sex eith a pretty girl. I woul like the girl to love me for real, and afterwards we can talk about sex. That's my opinion.
2006-07-02 23:52:42 · update #2
seems like a pretty even split there, so we shy guys do stand a chnce then if we can ever crack our shells to go ask the girls out.
this is the naughties so why should guys be the onlyu ones asking out the girls and making the moves. I personally welcom a day when girls take the lead often guys don't know where they stand with a girl. this can be equally as frustrating to guys as a shy guy not letting on his feelings without being asked.
as for the girl who was frustrated by a shy guy for not letting her know how he felt about her, all she had to do was ask.
the greatest gift we have as humans is communication,look at all the ways we have to do it, there good old talking, hand writing, Mobile (cell phone) calls, Landline calls, ship to shore radio phones, Ham radio, and CB radio to name the majority of the ways we communicate.
girls it's not like you come with instruction manuals. you can send out signals all you like to a guy but he is probably never going to pick your signals up. SO FORT THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE TALK IN WHATEVER MANNER YOU WANT but jusat talk!
2006-07-02 23:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
People are really diverse and there's always going to be someone who like a different type. Some people like shy guys, and some don't. Just be yourself. If being shy bothers YOU, then perhaps you can try new ways to be outgoing, such as going to parties, or joining clubs. But make sure you're doing that because you WANT to, not because you just want to be liked/popular.
2006-07-03 06:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, no. I have always been attracted to the popular guy, the life and soul of the party, the one who makes everyone laugh and feel good about themselves. Sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear!
2006-07-03 06:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy men are the hot-est! I think this is true because they have humility, mystery and it is always fun to unravel everything that isnt just slammed in your face.
2006-07-03 06:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Tia T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep ....they sure r........an outgoing guy is really cool 'n hot but they can't understand u 'n ur feelings..on the other hand hand shy guys thinks about u 'n care much 4 u
2006-07-03 06:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sara_102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for me, i am attracted to shy guys....
shy guy = A mystery that i should unveil.....
2006-07-03 06:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Black_Rabbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EACH HAS AN OPINION ON THIS MATTER BUT TO ME HE WOULD BE MORE ATTRACTIVE IF HE WAS SHY
2006-07-03 06:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehh not really..the more outgoing the easier it is to talk to them and get comfortable with.
2006-07-03 06:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Hooligan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are not interested in shy guys.. coz i'm one of them and i've seen that...
2006-07-03 06:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shy guys are cute..besisdes, they are more sinscere when it comes to their feelings
2006-07-03 06:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by nat_reyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋