I am true christian struggling with the women I married. she loves my money and sex never tried to live as a average christian wife's part of life. we were seperated for 4 years because of her worst behaviour (humiliating me of my status) still I forgave her and took her back.but she never realise her faults where as always points me and my family to excuse her sin.We are working in diferrent place and are able to meet only 45days per year that too she is not willing to live as a average wife(except Sex)as a believer I couldn't divorce her as I didn't find any adultery in her (can't see her all year). What shall I do should I suffer mentally and physically (controlling my sexual desire which I suppose to relieve with my legal wife) I'm 41 now my (so called) is also in the same age I have one son.living with her is like living in a hell but I loved her for 6 years before marrieage(she never showed her real self during that years) every thing afer marriage, Belivers Please advice me...
2006-07-02 23:13:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Okay. You cannot change a person unless they are willing to change. If you don't love her then let her go. Nobody has to suffer anything for anyone. People get divorced all the time even Christians. Its nothing to be ashamed of. You can divorce from Irreconcilable differences.Not just because of adultery. Its better than murdering someone.
2006-07-02 23:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is not a believer and she no longer wants to live in peace with you, you are under no obligation to stay married. If she is not a believer, but is willing to live in peace with you, seek out a Biblical counselor and get to work.
I may be mistaken, but even though you say you have forgiven her, you seem to have a lot of bitterness in your relationship. This will need to be resolved.
Based solely on what you've said and not knowing your wife's side of the story, I would say you have a long road to travel and you both will need support from people you trust while on the journey.
The sooner you can get to a Christian counselor the better.
2006-07-13 07:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen it is not either sin or good neither believer or disbeliever if ur not happy aor she is not happy stilll ur living with the same it is also a sin killing our innerslef is also a sin so please try to make understand, if she doesnt ask is she will be if your are going to live alone leaving her if ur interested in another try to tell her whole situatuion and if she is accepting go get if any body rejects there is still one hand will be ther that is OnlY GOD trust he never leaves you
sure i will prey for you praise the lord
2006-07-03 06:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by vankayalarakesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think i understand her behavior... you did not give enough details.....but i would advise trying to talk to a local pastor.....you both need counseling....and you both need to talk this over... together...stop the money if she like it so much... maybe that will get her to talk...
2006-07-03 06:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prayer is about the only advice i can give you so drop to your knees and ask God what you should do.
2006-07-03 06:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Don Corleone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont beat her enough.
2006-07-03 06:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am feeling sorry for you
2006-07-03 06:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by ghost freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump it
2006-07-03 06:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have pitty.......
2006-07-15 19:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Rylan N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋