all you hear women talking about is men 'perving', like there's something wrong with looking at them because they are beautiful and attractive. does that mean i'm not allowed to look at women, even though i haven't got a girlfriend and sometimes can't even remember what they look like?
2006-07-02 22:35:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We like it- we just act like we don't. You just made someones day by checking them out. keep it up!
2006-07-02 22:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by mescrumptious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its a difference between looking and staring. I'm not a woman so i don't know if this is 100% correct but from what I have learned. It OK to look, but anything longer the 3 seconds turns into staring. When you look at her don't look right at her chest or a ss. That makes them uncomfortable (lol i feel like I'm talking about how to handle an animal)... Plus when your single women think you staring at them means you want to f-uck them...
For example, in a bar or club, take a quick look at a girl and make sure she sees you, give her a smile then walk away and don't look at her again until later in the night. Chances are she noticed you (unless your not her type) and will be welcome to walking up and talking to her. Make sure when you do this, YOUR NOT DOING IT TO EVERY GIRL IN THE CLUB! If you have some game and are able to talk a little you might get yourself a date every now and then...
2006-07-03 05:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with men looking at women, it's when they 'leer' that it becomes a problem. If a woman notices a man leering, it can make her feel quite sick. Women do find it flattering when they become aware of a man noticing them but the man must be discreet and do it in a gentlemanly way.
If you can't remember what your old girlfriends look like maybe you have no respect for women and without consciously doing it been leering
2006-07-03 05:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how they are, sometimes it is hard but similarly how will you feel if your partners starts looking at other men? then she just discuss with you that, that guy is really handsome, how will you feel?
As long both of you are open on the subject then it does not matter if there are some ground rules like no cheating then that's it.
I remember when you are with your wife in the car, to look at thesidewalks was the starting of third world war in the car but we have overcome that now.
2006-07-03 05:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and look - an appreciative glance and maybe a smile if she meets your eyes is a long way from 'perving' (whatever that is). And believe me, they'd be complaining a lot louder if men just stopped looking at all.
2006-07-03 05:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What women consider perving is a man who appears interested in them for their sexuality only...make friendships first and only then consider something more intimate
2006-07-03 07:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes looking is ok,but when it becomes a leer and you start dribbling (from the mouth guys) and you starting sighing and noises like "cor" "yum" start coming out of your mouth then look away.
but it is really difficult not to look down tight vests/open blouses at a woman's cleavage, or the legs and *** of a woman in a micro mini dress or really any clothing to be honest.
I do try to look away and sometimes I suceed, but some women's assets are like magnest pulling us men's eyes back, back, back.
*sigh*
2006-07-03 05:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by realdragonflame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way some of these women dress attract attention from male and females and they're the first ones to say: 'What's he staring at me for? God'! (hello, put some clothes on and people won't stare!)
2006-07-03 10:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by LONDONER © 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman i look at good looking girls and i even point them out to my hubby. Never in a bitchy way im always like gosh how pretty is she and what a nice figure. YOu look all you like tiger as long as you dont make it too obvious.
2006-07-03 05:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by princess tinkle UK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men look (and nearly all women do too!!!)
Unless the woman you are with is very insecure, in which case, you can help her by being reassuring, women don't mind if their man looks.....as long as he looks, and doesn't stare and oogle.
2006-07-03 05:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course ur allowed to look whether ur in a relationship or not just cos ur in a relationship y cant u find other people attractive and sexy?????? and i dont think ur a perv by lookin even leering at women i dunno y some women are hung up on it ?!
2006-07-03 05:40:48 · answer #11 · answered by stacie lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋