me and my husband are both christans and my husband,s brother is a good man very hard working as well he is a minister to. my husband as well as me was going over to there home and my husband as well as me saw his sister in law with a younger man and it wasnt a pretty site to see. as what they was doing . dont she know at her age she is only being used for well as my husband said .a easy mark this will kill his brother when he finds out what his wife is doing . and our other neighbor is doing this as well with younger men to dont they have no shame in there marrag vows as well both of them have children older than what they both are commiting ;adultry] with my husband is going to tell his brother and our oter neighbor,s husband what we both saw where has the marrage vow that they took went with them .
2006-07-02 22:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by whitmangal_2 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
ones husband is a minister. and the other woman,s husband is a coalminer.
2006-07-02 22:17:12 · update #1
from what i read both of them seem to forget one thing god see,s all everything that they are doing and one other thing you said that there was children involved in this well sadley to say if this comes to light. it is always the children who are hurt on matters like this these .2. women lack morals in my opion. and one of the most was respct for there children as well there husbands as well these.2. women only thought of there selves and not there children sad in my opion very sad .. my opion?
2006-07-02 22:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 11⤊ 4⤋
Marriage isn't easy, it requires a lot of work to maintain a marriage and if one has been married for a very long period of time they eventually the individual gets bored. It's not a justification, it's the truth. If one's marriage isn't satisfying for one reason or the other, it tends to lead many people (especially) women to find that satisfaction outside of the marriage. Perhaps, its the lack of communication in the marriage, the lack of intimacy, the lack of sexual bond and energy, the lack of feeling wanted and desired...what ever the reason may be, it causes a void in the marriage. Initially one will try to fill the void in by getting attention from their spouse in any way possible, and if that doesn't work and spouse doesn't realize that he/she hasn't fulfilled his/her vow to keep his/her spouse happy in the marriage then the spouse feeling void searches for fulfillment somewhere else, usually with someone else, by having an affair.
I will admit it’s not right, but before you go telling the husbands have you considered asking the wives why they are doing this and see what they have to say about it? Perhaps they are having marital troubles and this is how they are filling in their void.
Many affairs, for women, don't happen because they think a younger man is a trend to have...it usually is because their is a personal need not being fulfilled by their husbands for whatever reasons and they are unable to talk to their husbands to get them to see the problem... (Some men are clueless to marital problems or what bothers a woman). Further more, perhaps you are one of the lucky one's who has a great guy for a husband, but unless you have been seriously unhappy in you marriage for whatever reason, you may not understand the reasons behind the women's affairs.
On a final note, don't tell their husbands first talk to their wives, because if you tell their husbands it may ruin the marriage, perhaps even lead to a divorce; because once you lose trust in your significant other it's really hard to maintain the relationship and it may take years before things ever get back to normal.
2006-07-02 22:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
till he's quite underage, the pedophile difficulty is a lot over the line. that's no longer proper for a 70 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous guy thus far a woman in her 20s. it is disgusting. i think of the stereotype comes from the thought the guy is the boss and the provider and if she's older, she's taking on a number of that and that's uncomfortable for human beings. It purely does not tournament that 1950's proper. that's dumb, yet i think of it quite is the area of the innovations actual everyone seems to be employing whilst they say issues like that.
2016-12-10 03:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by binford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and marriage is a moment by moment thing. people often make the mistake of thinking that once they tie the knot, it's over. Wrong. If love (which is the essence of marriage) is not nurtured moment by moment, it grows cold, old and weak. The result is these horrible consequences like you described and believe me, it's not limited to women alone. Men aren't spared.
2006-07-02 22:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tommy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those actions are very selfish. If she is going to cheat, she should talk him into swinging so that they get a piece together. I wonder if they are demanding of their husbands or are serving to them. I bet they act like the rule over their husbands.
2006-07-02 22:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Satan has gotten a hold of thier spirits or maybe something has happened between the two that you don't know about.
2006-07-02 22:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex
Reasoning behind it?
Pleasure
It is very simple. Awful, but simple. Sick, but simple.
They might have a fantasy that they want... to come true and they decide to take a chance.
It is stupid, but it is reality.
2006-07-02 22:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by JaMaMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she has lost control of her senses. She is following them instead of listening to her spirit.
2006-07-02 22:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's a shame yes...but sit down and talk about this.....don't tell anyone for a time....try to solve it with the help of god...and if it doesn't work, bring it up in the church.
2006-07-02 22:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bazsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are the same
your brother should look carefully at his marriage to see why she is cheating on him
2006-07-02 22:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by cgdchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋