2006-07-02 22:06:41 · 45 answers · asked by nadertex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When in doubt.....DON'T!
The only arbiter as to when you have sex for the frist time, or for that matter, any time, is you. There are only so many different sexual things one can do. If you start at 14, what is there for you to look forward to, sweetheart???
Never, never, never give up your control!
2006-07-02 22:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ancespiration 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeez lady, have u flipped ur lid or what. Ur 14 u say. I'm surprised u even considered it. Just repeat ur age in ur mind and then repeat it out loud, now tell me if it sounds like 14 and the word s_x go 2gether. NOT.
Ask him if he just wants 2 tear up the thing between ur legs, or if he really loves u, because if he loves u, there is no need 4 s_x 2 prove that he loves u. 2 prove that he loves can be done by waiting till ur both old enough and married. Dont u think if some 1 is willing 2 wait is proof enough that some1 loves u.
2006-07-02 22:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Hornylias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can probably just say "ditto" to pretty much everyone else who's answered you. Truthfully, if you were ready to do it you wouldn't have to ask a bunch of strangers! I'm not tryin to cut you down. Chances are he's in it for the sex. It's a real possibility that he will leave you whether you do have sex or not. If he's said he loves you, you've gotta know he's lying. Don't buy into it. Especially with something that you'll never get back and could lead to so many other problems. Troubles 25 year old adults don't know how to handle most of the time.
2006-07-02 22:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14. Things happen... do you really want to deal with a child at the age of 14. I'm 19 and I'm a virgin. Sure some guys might make fun of me but lots of girls like it and what is the point of having sex with someone you don't love. You are too young to know what love is.
2006-07-02 22:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by xeroxpoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a porn magazine and a bottle of lotion with a note attached to it saying "I am not ready for this and am uncomfortable, have fun with this present".
(I dont expect anyone to literally do that, however he needs to get a clue your not ready).
Your first time should be enjoyable, and 14 is really young. I shooed all those stiff little boys away, and found a man I wanted to enjoy Sex with at the age of 21. Being a virgin isnt a bad thing, remember that.
2006-07-02 22:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Vampress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until YOUR ready,exspecially if your a virgin...there's too many consequences to it not to think this over ...i wouldn't do it w/out protection(Always make a guy wear a condom ) and if u can discuss this with your parents get on birth control...if u don't want to be a teenage mother...there's also the not so nice diseases u can get that sometimes don't go away(gonoria,suphilus,etc...and even aids)so if u choose to have sex think it over and keep protected!PLEASE!!!!!
Although if your only 14 your kind of young,don't do something you'll regret...your virginity is something u can't get back once its done its done.
2006-07-02 22:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is really horny as he is getting his hormones kicking in! tell him no and that if he really likes you he will understand how you feel and wait until your ready! if he doesnt then let him go and find a true boyfriend that trully like's you for just who you are! your still toooo young to think about having sex! stay a virgin until your around 18 then you will know what to do and have a good idea of it! Good Luck!
2006-07-02 22:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by ninjadude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid and not ready Don't. Anything you do in life you must first feel comfortable with. Don't let anyone push you into doing something you are not ready for. You are young, and you have you whole life ahead of you, plenty of time for that in the future when you are ready. You first time should be something very special, that you will want to have fond memories of not regret.
2006-07-02 22:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by celtic-tides04@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question you are definately NOT ready. You have a lot of time to worry about sex and all the consequences of it. Enjoy being 14! If he isn't accepting of your wanting to wait he isn't worth losing your virginity to in the first place!
2006-07-02 22:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a teenager myself.
and I have just one thing to tell you: Don't!
You're obviously not ready, and you will regret if you have sex with him right now. Why would you have to do something you don't want to do? Your boyfriend will understand, and support you if he loves you. Otherwise, he is an idiot and he's just using you for sex.
It's a good way to see if he truely loves you!
2006-07-02 22:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by Staticx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋