2006-07-02 21:34:50 · 19 answers · asked by °o.OMiZz AnGeLiCiOsO.o° 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd become friends first but not necessarily, it depends on the situation. I met by b/f a few years ago and we were friends for about 3 months and then we moved into a serious relationship and now we're planning a Fall wedding.
2006-07-02 21:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by rodaerc06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want a lasting relationship then take the time to get to know the person....not necessarily as a friend but just move it slower if your serious about the person...although being friends first with the person gives u a different perspective and will tell u a lot about that person.
2006-07-03 04:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is highly recommended to be friends first.. Get to know that person a little more..
If the chemistry level you have with that person is very strong and you believe that you guys will last long.. why not.. just proceed then...
During the period of being friends.. find out his likes and dislikes.. his strengths and weaknesses.. learn to accept his flaws.. take note of little details.. as small details do matter.. if he really likes you too, then there's no harm of being together..
I met my boyfriend during high school.. It was more of a hi and bye conversation each time we pass each other.. It was only the third year that he ask me to be his.. And to be honest, I only find him cute and I have no clue at all of his likes and dislikes..
Slowly, I progressed with both of us learning more of each other.. And thank god.. I am still with him now.. Ups and downs there may be in our relationship but our love is still going strong despite 6.5yrs down the road..
You will just know somehow that that person is the one for you...
Cheers.. (",)
2006-07-03 04:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ellusive Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be friends first before getting involved. Then later if you know you love each other. Then you can built a solid relationship. It's always nice to know good comes to those who wait. (Never rush in to anything!) Good luck!
2006-07-03 04:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All good relationships were good friends first! If you're friends first then it gives you a chance to get to know the person before you label it as boyfriend and girlfriend, to see if you want that label, or if you'd rather remain friends!
2006-07-03 04:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe being friends with the person 1st @ least 3-6 mths will help the relationship last longer. I was friends with my now bf 4 about 61/2 mths be4 hooking up with him. I knew all his dislike & like as well as things u normally don't share with some1 your trying to hook up with. so I think being friends with the person 1st help build an relationship.
2006-07-03 04:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by sophycakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for being in any relationship u should know the person first and for know someone u should try to be her/his friends, i first like to be a friend first then think for other relation
2006-07-03 04:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how you feel towards that person!! i think if the signs are there for a relationship you need to take it. if you become friends that is cool also, but make sure if you become friends that person is willing to cross that line someday!!
2006-07-03 05:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by T-Dizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely friends first! U have to know the real him/her before u move on to the next level
2006-07-03 05:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's always best to be friend with the person first. see you get to know the person better, rather than to be having much regrets for having fallen for the wrong person later on.
2006-07-03 04:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋