i can't live without her...as nonsense as it sounds...its been my hardest yet best 9months ever...our relationship was between different cultures with my parents totally against it due to race and hers due to her being too young...we're not together anymore because of all this **** but she loves me and i love her so much...and its crazy the love we have...the amount we've done for each other...the sacrifices we've had to made...she's scared of disappointing me that she can't give me enough time cause of hiding it from her parents and college starting..i can't live without her...i don't want to live anymore...i've stopped eating and drinking...hopefully i won't make it...even better...hopefully she'll come back before i die...sorry but i don't have anywhere else to turn to
2006-07-02 21:31:56 · 21 answers · asked by usefulessness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you think she'll feel about it?
Stop being so selfish.
2006-07-02 21:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kiri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your love is very perfect and pure, there are few people do have that kinds of eotions and matched perfectly. But the emotional people think twice and decide positively. You are most wanted person in the world, the problem you are facing is everywhere and it will be ended in a fgew days or months. Since your love is pure and perfect it wont allow you to die. Your love could not be die in two or three years it has to live for hundred in more years and it has to be a history. All the best, live long, enjoy the love. Problems are part and parcel of the love world.
2006-07-03 04:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how you doin i am big boss man tommy guns from the wild wild west and let me tell u a few thing 1 u will almost al ways feel beeter in the mornig 2 ther are many reason to feels depress did you know that the smell of some toxic molds like in side walls or really any where can actually make you feel as depressed as you are feelin 3 also look on the bright side things coulnd be a lot wo rst 4here one thing at least you not in the war miss a lot more than just some girl who might not be ready
2006-07-03 04:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by J33317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand how tough it is as am going through the same stuff...and mine is a 3 year old relationship...even i cant think of my life without him but his parents are dead against it for the same reasons as yours...i have been going through it for almost a year & even my condition has been yours...but then sometime back i just decide that this is not a way it should be...i love him yes but we cant destroy our life because of this...even i felt like ending my life but then we thought that we were not cowards who'ill just give it up..we are fighters & we will...there are some things that are just out of our control...but always believe that theres something called destiny & we cant change it...no i am not asking you to forget her but to leave things to destiny & believe in god & your love...atleast there is a satisfaction that we havnt been ditched & our partners still love us...just give it time as i am & if its meant to be than nobody can stop it...set the things in your life right...love doesnt means destroying your life for someone but to make the best of your life & being the best that you can be...dont ignore your career & your studies as its important...just think that if you guys got together then you have to plan things accordingly to live a great life together...i know its hell...although i work almost 12 hours but still when at night am alone in my bed, i cant fight my tears...but i dont let my boyfriend know how bad i still feel...we have gone through so muchy but the love has only grown with everything...we both are concentrating on our careers & supporting each other in every way...who knows what will happen in future, tomorrow might just be a better day & if we give up now then we'll even lose that chance...only we can support each other at this time...we have to be each others strength & find a way...just think about it, all this will just make us & our relationship stronger if we know how to fight it all...
Good Luck!!
2006-07-03 04:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um i know your in love but don't be so dramatic,if she loves u and u love her it will work out....just work through your problems....and if u both are finiacially stable and over 18 u can do what u want no matter what your parents think,u shouldn't haver to sneak around and hide....and thats selfishness on your part if u want to be dead over this...did u ever think about how this would make your girlfriend feel if u were to die?grow up and act like a mature adult about this and figure out a solution that can work for both of u!
2006-07-03 04:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really loved her you wouldn't try to kill yourself! seriously be a man! Wait for her! Tell her that no matter what you will be here for her and when she's ready you will be there waiting!
But seriously if this is causing you so much pain then get out of it and get a hobby or something!
okay... have you ever gone fishing?
Did you catch any fish?
How many?
A lot right?
Exactly there is a lot of fish in the sea!
There are plenty other women in the world! And i bet you could find one bettere than her!!!
Good luck!
Teresa
2006-07-03 04:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what your parents opinions may be....just keep trying to make it work. If you two are in LOVE...then who the hell cares what your parents think. I bet they aren't even in love themselves. Also...if things get harder for the two of you to be together...jnust keep having hope, and NEVER give up....because you two are "working"..."fighting" for your LOVE...isnt it worth it.?
I know your feeling depressed but what good is it if you died?...your family would feel horrible and guil;ty from all this...their lives will be ruined...and your love of your life would be left alone without her love...because why?....because you left her. So...you love her right?...don't leave her like this...and you love your family....don't ruin their lives either. They only want the best for you...and see things in a different point of view because of the way they were raised. You can talk to them and help to open their minds a little. Good luck...and stand up for love!!!!
2006-07-03 04:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by 1stronger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sorry to hear about your pain however if she is too young than perhaps it is best that she and you do have some time apart and think of ot this way if it is true love than you will probibly end up together anyway and isnt it worth staying around to see what happens?
2006-07-03 04:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by seahag09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on.... dont be stupid!!! U r giving up jus a wild flower for the whole dame forest! Get over it... keep yourself busy. U will forget her and u will be happy again soon! Life goes on.... theres better things to do.. U will live!
2006-07-03 04:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, got your hands full. In time the pain will fade, believe it or not, there will be a better day.
If you sneak around to play, her parents will find out, and there will be hell to pay.
Try to rework that rhyme to take your mind off things.
2006-07-03 04:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was the rubbest question that i ever seen.stupied just think about your mom&dad *** the thing you are calling is not love just ask your mom. when she suffered with u at the time of pragent.ask your dad how he suffered to brought u up that is call love.this is not a love which u are saying.sorry to say that just think once u want to die for a girl.i am not oppose to love try to understand me my friend
2006-07-03 04:47:47 · answer #11 · answered by sandeep v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋