2006-07-02 20:31:48 · 30 answers · asked by Mystica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm it might be a sign of a deeper problem. You can ask yourself this. Have you ever been molested or anything like that ? I don't need to know but that can cause women to not be into sex. Maybe you can talk to a doctor if it ain't that. Maybe it's just your body and how it works. You have to look deeper cause maybe there is a reason.
2006-07-02 20:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had to know that you were going to be opening yourself up to all those typical "rude dude" answers. The fact of the matter is that there is deffinately a problem there. Not necessarily with you but there is a problem. Sex is not only hot, hot, hot when it is right but a wonderful experience between two adults that really want and need eachother. Or at least it should be. Try differant things in the bedroom, either alone or with a partner. Try out the local sex shop and if there is someone special in your life invite them to go with you and pick out some really cool stuff. Above all if you do this keep an open mind and remember that any one you see in there is there for the same reason. If these things don't work, you may want to consult a theripist. And it doesn't have to be a sex theripist. You may be able to get to the bottom of this in just a visit or two. The other thing to consider is this simple.........are you really attracted to the one that you're with? And all joking aside you may indeed be interested in women. There certainly isn't anything wrong with that. Best of luck and I'm not going to offer my services. This is a serious issue and deserves serious attention.
2006-07-02 21:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by rsqur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one I havn't seen you, so I don't know if you are really a babe. But all females think that they are the next super model. lol not all can be. And enjoyed sex,? Most females don't enjoy sex because they are under a lot of stress from there children and husband and boyfriends. Life is more stressful then in the 1940. but the only thing wrong with you is that your female and you can enjoy sex if you can 't clear you mind and not worry about money when you have sex.
2006-07-02 20:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't hit your sexual peak until you're around 40, and if you haven't spent the time until then figuring out what really pleasures you, you may never get around to enjoying it.
For women, really great sex is lovemaking, not just going through the physical motions of the act. There has to be an emotional connection - and for some women that has to be a STRONG emotional connection.
Try discovering what really makes you quiver, because if you don't, it's very possible that no man ever will.
So many women and girls start having sex so early in life that it just becomes a game, something they pretend at - both for themselves and for their partners - and some never get past that; it becomes the total definition of sex for them, and it's so sad.
Take your time, there really isn't any hurry. Just know that you have to learn yourself, first.
2006-07-02 20:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Crooks Gap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. There are lots of people who haven't enjoyed sex. It's mainly due to the fact that you've only really enjoyed "cookie cutter" sex. If you've gone past the typical missionary positions then there are things I can tell you that I don't think I can post here.
If you'd like to know more feel free to email me at jakeangry1@yahoo.com. I've had a wild hey day in my time and I know a few things that might work. They're just really improper for here.
2006-07-02 20:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jacob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so you're 25 and you don't like sex. Why, don't you like sex? is it because you've never been satisfied. Or maybe it's a moisture problem, and there is a pain factor. All possibilities must be taken in to consideration. Have you ever been sexually abused as a child. That could be a factor. There could be many factors here, but until all of them have been checked out and resolved, we'll just never know.
2006-07-07 15:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by KingCucamonga 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Logically, there is nothing wrong.
But, I would advice you to read some erotic material or soft porn (not those hardcore ones) and create a positive vibe for sex. You can also explore your own sexuality to check what really turns yu on. It is very important for a relationship and human beings, being social animals, cannot do away with relationships ! Believe me, sex is one of the greatest gift that nature has given us; and you have all the right to enjoy it.
All the best.
2006-07-02 20:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by life_is_rhythm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a person with a great heart. Your problem is that you really have to feel in love to enjoy it. And that its not a problem at all. It's the way is meant to be. When you "enjoy" sex without loving you are not really enjoying it you are just satisfying a pleasure. And if you confuse pleasure with love you will never love at all.
2006-07-02 20:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by DJAlien 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you - if you enjoy masturbation but not sex, you should try telling your partners exactly what you like when you masturbate. If either is painful, check with your gynecologist to make sure you don't have an anomoly that makes sex painful - that could point to a problem. If its not painful, but you like neither masturbation or sex, maybe its because you're just not ready.
2006-07-02 20:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by virgo82676 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would someone who doesn't enjoy sex refer to herself by the sexy term "babe"?
Isn't that a word that should be applied by someone else after having checked you out? ("Hey, look at the babe in the bikini!")
2006-07-02 20:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by gra_wlf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋