I'm 6'5", 220pounds of muscle(cut), tall, dark, and oh yes, so handsome! O.K. I'll admit that I'm not at the top of the pile of handsome men in America. I've been working out religiously for the past few months, I quit smoking, and drinking. I feel like a whole new person! For some strange reason I'm starting to get alot of attention fron the ladies. I mean, A.L.O.T of attention! My female co-workers are flirting with me more than usual, women stare, smile, and my boss says that he is jealous of me, because I get all the female responses. Should I just ride with the flow or revert back into my nerdy shell? I'm a good guy, I just don't want to hurt anyone, especially me; by overendulging in this strange phenomenon. I've had a woman tell me tonight that she wanted to be mine. What do you think?
2006-07-02 20:13:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be a curse depending on how well you handle it.
2006-07-02 20:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal to get attracted with a good appearance. See, when you go to a zoo, the lion , tiger and all other well built animals get more attention. Where as a dull sleepy one is given just a passing glance.
You have to choose, if this attention really disturbs you, or whether you can have a protective fence around you which guards the "property" without blocking the view !
2006-07-02 20:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard it too and questioned an identical factor. while a motive force does it, the announcers make an apology. while Rusty did it, they glossed actual over it. The drivers are in a greater emotional concern than Rusty so which you may think of he does not get cut back any slack. NASCAR can not do something to Rusty, i think, yet what with regard to the FCC? not sure what the regulations are. As somebody else suggested, possibly god dammit has grow to be greater proper than words utilized by ability of Jr and others, yet it fairly is gloomy in itself. i might think of greater human beings may be indignant by ability of what Rusty suggested. besides, i'm not loopy approximately Rusty as an announcer interior the 1st place. If I have been president of ESPN/ABC for sometime, i might hire Dale Jarrett to take Rusty's place next 12 months!
2016-12-08 15:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by bucks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, from my standpoint, all the gals i know want a peice of me (still cant see why), and i am definetly a geek at heart, so unlike most guys who were blessed with good looks throughout the school years, i was teased, bullied and very unpopular, so by going through all that, i never felt the need to objectify woman, reason being... non of the gals liked me in that way up to Gr 11.
NOW im getting offers left and right, phone calls from girls who i dont even know..., now, im a shy guy, and i consider everybodies feelings, and i have rejected alot of offers from all my lady friends (with a reason that does not hurt them in any way).
dont get me wrong, if ya wanna date... GO AHEAD, but the most obvious answer would be, "dont fall in love with every gal you meet", and do not be fake, girls can see right through a show off, be yourself, and speak your mind, therefore keeping things simple, and makes it easier if you have to explain "why you dont think you should see her".
im definetly waiting for that special one, whether i find her in a few days, or when im 70, i dont want to sift through women as if they meant nothing to me, its hard not to hurt feelings, but if you have a good and honest reason... than she will understand (unless shes psycho ;) ).
2006-07-02 20:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by lyle f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing worse than a man that looks good and knows it!!! Be proud of taking care of yourself, but if you are looking for a solid relationship, I wouldn't go after the girls that only started noticing you after your transformation. It says a lot when people are nice and friendly to you before you were in peak physical condition, but it says even more about the people that have only noticed you after.
If you are only looking for meaningless hookups, it looks like you will have plenty of chicks to choose from.
2006-07-02 20:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by Renee' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's great that you've made a great turnaround with your life but it seems that you've only gotten concieted with it. But rather be more careful about talking too much about your looks. It's a total turnoff for women when we meet a guy who's too much into himself. But other than that congratulations for giving up drinking and smoking.
2006-07-02 23:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. Must be nice to be able to get all the women! haha Just don't get overconfident or conceited about it. That's just a turnoff to women.
2006-07-02 20:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by Thing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lucky guy! You've worked hard to change for the better and you have achieved that - I admire that greatly. Enjoy life.
2006-07-02 20:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its, "The Curse of Arrogance. Your stuck on yourself sweetheart. I don't believe things until I see it, so you should send me a pic and I'll tell you how fine you are or are not.
Otherwise, if your drop dead gorgeous, and people tell you just say thanks and don't brag people hate braggers.
2006-07-02 20:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your gonna get so into yourself that you never find a woman that is good enough.
2006-07-02 20:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋