ok my ex b/f cheeted on me 2 times and then tryed to a 3rd time here is what he did idk if u call it cheeting he was txtn the 1st girl and went to walmart and was haning out wiht the 2nd and then txtd the girl again and i told him i was done and he txt me saying he loved me and to call him that was the 2nd time and now he wants to be just friends & i miss him but idk y & he wants to hook up w/my friend over all he was a good b/f but i dont want her to hurt like i did but i want him to be happy but ill be unhappy w/o him & seeing him w/her wut do i do??
2006-07-02 19:52:22 · 11 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u go on w/o him, u never stop loving someone u learn to live without them... u deserve more, don't u want to know you are the one and only.. best of luck to u
2006-07-02 20:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by c_sev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What draws you to him is the drama of him cheating. If he treated you like a goddess and painted your toenails you'd think he was a worthless sack of horse poo. Since he's such a prick to you it shows you that he's dominant and lots of girls unknowingly love that. I have a friend that does that to every girl he dates. You're letting all of it go too far. Just think about it, were you happy when you were with him? Always worrying if he was cheating? Were you happy when you found out? Now, do you really want to go through that again? For some people it takes more bad experiences than others, but I hope you've learned from it and can move on and take your lessons into your next relationship, because you should always be learning from experiences like that. Good luck sweetie!
2006-07-03 03:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this many times.Get a new boyfriend.Theres nothing else to do.It'll bother him but he'll have to deal with it.Why not ,you have to.You have nothing to lose by treating yourself for a good time.I know you're caught in something you want to keep trying on but screw it and don't look back.And don't let him stop you.Respond to him but keep going ahead to someone else so you don't get overwhlemed with his I love you BS.If you have sex with someone will he still love you even though he did it to you?Thats one sided.It shouldn't be that its ok for him but not you.Im sure it wont be ok by him.If he shows he still wants you after you're with someone else thats ok but not good enough if your other lover is good for you.At this moment don't do anything for them...do stuff for yourself that makes you feel good or you'lll get nothing and it'll drive you nuts.Get someonelse and then ask questions later.Besides Im sure you'll forget about what you should do after you find someone that likes you because that will be the answer.
2006-07-03 03:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Matty G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say talk to your friend about this. She knows you best, and will understand where you stand better than I do. You are probably just not over him yet. As they say there are plenty more fish in the sea, but you still want to keep all of your yesterdays catch, even if some of it is undersize and should be thrown out.
2006-07-03 02:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life and stop living the white-trash, Jerry Springer drama. Start doing productive things like thinking about where you'll go to college (I hope you are in high school because you sound immature) and finding better friends to hang out with.
2006-07-03 02:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by texgirl724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , this we call puppy love , I don't see any good reason , you have to allw a real nonsense person in your life , who has no feeling for anyone accept his own enjoyment . You must call him and hit him royaly , so he will not dare to spoil any other normal nice girl with soft feelings and heart .
2006-07-03 03:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok he never really did anything but go to walmart and txt these girls. Why the **** are you so protective. trust the guy!
2006-07-03 03:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by jsnoopy2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why you love him i know him and he is one of the biggest *** wholes ever lol you know what i am talking about lol and if he likes you know who then he has really lost his mind big time lol let him be with her he will realize how much he is gunna hate her lol like me luv ya
2006-07-03 03:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by pinkflip_16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sever all ties with him.this man can only hurt you and cause you endless pain.
2006-07-03 09:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u only need a new true love! a new brand one or a picnic!
2006-07-03 02:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋