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K.. heres the thing theirs this guy that I liked for sometime now but how do i know if he likes me? & the other thing is that i dont actully talk to him, well actullty i dont at all... but sometimes i look his way and i see him lookin at me... we use to be some wht close but now we just hang out with out OTHER friends... so i never talk to him cuz im like really shy when even goin near my chrushes... !!! H E L P !!!

2006-07-02 19:31:45 · 15 answers · asked by confused? 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

15 answers

Probably the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge. So, here are a few clues to working out if he likes you as much as you like him.

Steps
Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.

Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you and you like him, neither of you will step back.

Make eye contact - if he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa.

You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly.

Be aware of touching - he might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.

Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you - but this is quite hard to pick up on and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.

See if he keeps going out of his way to 'bump' into you.

Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.

Joke freely. Does he laugh even if you aren't funny?

Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting...

Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.

See if he always end up in the same line or group as you.

Tips
Does he make an extra effort to be around you in certain situations (dances, school, etc)? That could be a sign.

His friends might often ask you how you feel about him.

Chances are, if your stomach does a flip flop when you see him, his may be doing the same.

Smile, be yourself, and let biology and fate work their charms.

You can always ask a friend to ask him - but that can backfire.

You can't really make someone like you - but the best way to be noticed is to be true to yourself, feel good about yourself and never do anything you don't want to do to get someone's affection.

Think about how you act when you like someone and look for those signs in others.

Wear lipgloss, mascara, and eyeliner, but that's it.

Always have clean, shiny, brushed hair.

Stand tall. It's the first thing they teach you at model school.

Warnings
Don't spend too long trying to find out or you may look like a stalker and this will also backfire.

2006-07-02 19:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

1. He stares at you a lot.
2. He hits you a lot. (just play hitting )
3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a conversation with you
4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school.
5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride" with you cuz you
couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.
6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in the process
7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk.
8. You hung up on him. He called you back.
9. You where invited by him to a group outing.
10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.
11. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do snort sometimes. Which makes you
laugh even harder.
12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.

2006-07-02 19:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by mini 3 · 0 0

listen sister, if u don't run after the taxi, it won't wait for u cause someone will take it. Talk to that boy even if it means telling him straight up that u down for him, cause he might not know u, c the thing with guys is that they are like babies, if u don't show them what u want, they will look for it elsewhere. Just say hie, ask him for his number, that way he gets the idea and if he is down, then i promise you someone will be kicking boots on the 4th of july

2006-07-02 19:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if he is looking at you when you are not looking...that means he is definately interested.go ahead and talk to him.if you are shy then you will miss on the love of your life.talk to him. if you see that he is laughing at your jokes or if he is hanging around you to talk about nothing, or if he is acting weird around you, if he knows every little information like your favourite icecream ,calling you to find about your birthday,finding anything to chat with you or even trying hard to get...these are the symptoms that tells you that he likes you. but if you dont talk to him, you will never know.dress nicely and go to him with a big smile.start a conversation about your exams or anything that interests him. if you see that he is smiling back and is carrying on the conversation then he is also into you. dont be scared. you are smart. you can do it.

2006-07-02 20:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0 0

Yes , he really miss you and by heart , you really adore him , as per on your own statement . Go ahead , talk to him with a small Hello . Hold his hand & see the surprise result .

2006-07-02 19:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0 0

Ask this guy out to a film, or lunch or maybe even a walk onthe beach. Get to know him and be yourself....only time will tell if he likes you but you will never know if you never ask.

2006-07-02 19:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by City C 2 · 0 0

well dear,if he keeps looking at you and smiling at you then its just possible he likes you so why dont you just walk up to him and ask him if he would like to go have a pizza or something then you and him can talk.

2006-07-02 19:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, Darling you have to talk to him. Have a conversation with him. You may discover that you really like him or you really don't. Either was engage him.

2006-07-02 19:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by Smoochie 2 · 0 0

Dude listen to Mini, she's pro.

2006-07-02 19:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by wd20x2 3 · 0 0

you just gotta strike conversation some way. girls got that about them....seductive. use it hun. anyway, when u seem him looking at you, as corny as it sounds - smile. you should talk to him.

2006-07-02 19:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by sball124 3 · 0 0

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