what should i do?

Question

well I have a problem with my boyfriend and we have been together for two years and he seems strange resently. when we first started going out I was thinking about brakeing up with him but then he started treating me like a queen. Then i found out i was preggy with his baby and it was a scary time for me and i was thinking about giving my baby up but he told me no dont and i did not and now baby tray jr. is 6 1/2 months old and im glad i keept him. anyway he would take the baby out and get these strange numbers he said they were babysitters because my dream is to go to collage and graduate i trusted him enuff to take that. then he got fiered from his job and left me to work overtime now he goes out all the time and comes home LATE every time i ask him where he is going he said do worry about it and that does not give me any confidence in our relationship i feel i should leave him but what about our baby and all the times he said he would marry me but then treats me like crap. HELP

Answer 1

It sounds like you already know the answer, yes hon he's cheating and once a cheater always a cheater.
I know it's going to be hard but it's best for your baby and you to leave him, he seems very immature to be the babys father and he's treating you like sh*t.
Dump him girl! you deserve alot better.
Goodluck.
And don't let the idiot b4 me upset you, she's the dumb ***
It's not your fault.

Answer 2

Well, first of all, you don't need him, If you want to be with him it's your choice and he should be damn lucky! You can still go to college and graduate, most colleges have child care on campus and they will even help you pay your bills while you are in school so NEVER give up your dream! The two of you are still adapting to your new life as parents. I'm sure he's not trying to hurt you, but it sounds like he's got a some growing up to do. Tell him to get a job and help you take care of your son, or step because right now he's holding you back by causing you to worry when you should be able to trust him and depend on him. It takes more than just love to raise a child.

Answer 3

I think you need to leave him. His change in attitude means he is cheating on you. You don't need him and as far as the #'s being for babysitters that was a lie. He was using your son to get women's phone numbers. You deserve to be treated like a queen and be happy. You seem to be a strong women and you can take care of yourself and your son by yourself. You will find someone to take care of you and your son. You will be his queen. Never let a men make you feel like you are less of a woman and that you don't deserve all the things that you want and need.
Keep you head up!

Answer 4

well if you have done everything you could to make the relationship to work and its not helping then you should get out. empty promises are just that they are empty and will not lead to anything. there are other ways you can go to college. you can go online or take two classes at a time or just one. dont waste your good years with a guy that has no future and all your going to have is a baby daddys that comes home when he feels like it. hes just a baby's daddy go out and experience life just because you have a baby doesnt mean you have to quit do things you want to you just have someone you can experience life with. like when he quits older you quys can go out and do things together and then you have yourself a little buddy well take care and keep your head up.

Answer 5

ur boyfriend was not ready for being a dad, so now he is in denial, trying to make sense of what is really happening ni his life, trying to see if he leaves you, will things be fine. Just give him some time and for the sake of ur baby also, stay a little longer. if it really gets out of hand, then u would have to leave, for the protection of the baby. I know how it feels. I am really sorry.

Answer 6

Girl wake up and smell the coffee!you and your sweet baby will be better off without him and find u someone who will treat u like a queen again.sounds like he is all for himself and not u and the baby's future,first u should be respected and and go on with a more better life.

Answer 7

hon, you know what he is doing, you really don't have to ask. if this is stressing you out, your baby is going to feel it also. please don't let him feed you that line about it is for babysitters. I have been a single parent, it is alot easier that having a baby in a hard relationship. the single parenting you can adjust to, but having a difficult untrusting relationship is never going to get easier, and will keep getting harder. you need to take care of yourself before you will be fully able to take care of anyone else. you and your baby are worth it. do what is in your heart.

Answer 8

when he asked you to keep the baby, and then came home with " babysitters" numbers, its seems to me like he wanted a chance to use the baby to get women. Believe it! jerks do that. and now that he is treating you like crap. i would only want whats best for my baby. so i would say srew him and give trey a good life.

Answer 9

well look since it is his baby
if you break up with him he will have to pay child support and if he does that crap all the time you should dis him if he doesnt care about the baby enough to get money and put food on the table then just dump him and find a man that will produce wat you need

Answer 10

You can leave him, it might be hard but you need to be happy to be the best mother for your child! you can either move on or stay with him/marry him and be miserable for the rest of your life!