how do i reach an orgasm when i have sex?

Question

i only get the big "O" when i play with myself, but i wat to ejeculate! and *** with my hubbie! :(
PLEASE HELP!!!

Answer 1

Well, very few women are able to ejaculate. Also, simultaneous orgasms are not all that common, & require a lot of practice. However, if you want to orgasm during sex, you may need to try different positions. Being on top of him seems to be the best for the women I've dated. That way, you can experiment with angles & find what stimulates you the most & him the least. The key is making him last long enough to get yours, & then you can always shift position to get him off or switch to missionary & take a breather while he does the work. Also, increasing foreplay could help, especially if you have him give you oral until you have at least one orgasm. Use of specialized condoms or penile rings could help provide extra stimulation to the G-spot or the clitoris. Switching from an in & out motion to a circular grinding motion that keeps your pubic bones rubbing together could give you greater clitoral stimulation during sex. Also, if his penis has an upward curve, being on top or going doggy-style could help maintain constant G-spot contact, especially if you try being on top while facing away from him. Kegel exercises may also aid you in being able to manipulate your vaginal muscles to increase friction, possibly aiding in orgasm. Finally, you can always try rubbing your clitoris with a couple of fingers or the tip of a vibrator while he penetrates you to assist things by combining sex with masturbation. For more ideas, try the link below. Best of luck on getting him to make your toes curl & your insides quiver with delight.

Answer 2

To make a girl orgasm, finger the G spot furiously (or use a G spot toy), masturbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a powerful vibrator body massager on your clit at the same time). Maybe have an object in her a-nus (a turn on by women). You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed or any good aphrodisiac (a sexual libido enhancer, NOT Viagra or "size pills") . The G-spot is on the top inside of the vagina. Curve your fingers up when fing*ring. For a libido enhancer, try http://www.directvideoanddvd.com/listcategory_toys.asp. Maybe pop in a porno. Girls love when you rub the inside of her thigh(s) while you do this. [for the guys to do]

Answer 3

good - at least now you know what turns you on and gets you going - now try to pinpoint the stimulation you give yourself and work it into your love making - try to get your man to stimulate you in the same way - either with his fingers, tongue or by trying different positions so perhaps his penis can do it. Make him aware of that special touch you need - concentrate on him being able to provide it during love making - then as you begin to reach that big "O" - let him know and hold on girl! - Its a wonderful feeling to reach your "O" at the same time - its what it is all about!
Remember - take it slow and stay relaxed - don't get stressed about it - enjoy

Answer 4

dear dont play wid urs.play wid ur hubby.u want to get orgasm den u shud do, foreplay for 1/2 an hour and ur hubby may suck ur nipples,**** and ur whole body den **** hard in ur vagina and u close ur eyes and feel

Answer 5

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